What drives you insane about your lover/SO/Spouse? - Tilted Forum Project Discussion Community

hunnychile · 09-27-2010, 02:41 PM

Mine can be so f**king arrogant that I want to scream! He's always had it all. I never did and I get embarrassed whenever he's curt with a waitperson or rude to someone who seems less intelligent than he is.

Now it's your turn Ladies. And, by the way, let's infuse new life and energy to our post here because we can!

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Lindy · 09-27-2010, 04:46 PM

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Originally Posted by hunnychile

...Now it's your turn Ladies. And, by the way, let's infuse new life and energy to our post here because we can!

My Sig other talks about his late wife, who died about four years ago. I encourage it because I think it will eventually help him move on. But I hate it at the same time.

I know that this is different, very different from talking about an ex-wife or ex gf. I guess I just resent the hold that her memory has on him. And then I feel guilt for being glad she died. Because he's not a cheater. If she hadn't died, I wouldn't have him, and he is such a keeper. So in a way, I celebrate what he grieves.

We're leaving on a cross country road trip later this week, so we'll have hours and hours to talk some things through.

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Originally Posted by hunnychile

The Ladies Lounge Rocks!! Let's Do It!!

We could all try to participate more in the Ladies Lounge. Strive to reply to at least one thread each week. Maybe start one thread each month? I don't know, sometimes their just isn't much activity in the LL. I'll try to do my part. Maybe bring some old thread back from the dead.

Lindy

hunnychile · 09-27-2010, 05:03 PM

Lindy, your cross country trip is gonna be a good trip together. Don't dwell on any guilty feelings... because God had another plan for her and it's okay. This is all part of his plan. Just be in the "Present" and feel happy for the" Here & Now". That's the way it's supposed to be and enjoy it.

You guys are beginning a new & wonderful phase in your lives. Many blessings to you all. Be open & honest & patient - those feelings never fail. Remember to be kind and wait it it's too painful to discuss while traveling.

** And Thanks for wanting to revive the "Ladies Lounge". We Ladies all deserve to share good stuff together!

snowy · 09-29-2010, 07:22 AM

I'm going to be honest here: as interested as I am in seeing more posts in the Ladies Lounge (thus this post right here), this thread is not a topic I am interested in.

I don't believe this is the place for me to discuss what aggravates me about my husband. When he does aggravate me, I try and take it up with him first. When that isn't possible (i.e. he's out of town or whatever), there are a few select friends who might get to hear about it.

I'd rather set things right than just bitch about them, personally.

I'd also kind of hoped that this would be a more positive thread, because when I saw the topic I thought it might be something about what sexually drives you insane...the answer to that question is: his cock.

hunnychile · 09-29-2010, 08:50 AM

Snowy...you're spot on. Can I have a re-do? Perhaps we can start with POSITIVES LIKE:

One thing I DO love is when my man kisses the back of my neck just below my hairline. Very goosebumpy & nice. Makes my knees go weak.

Lady Bear Cub · 10-02-2010, 06:36 PM

His rolled up socks when I do the laundry. When I unroll them, they are still wet. Or I have to sit there and unroll them all before I put them in the washer. I already had this conversation with him. LOL.

Something positive, whenever I talk about him, I am always smiling. People ask me about him and when I answer I don't even realize it. But they always point it out and say they can tell that I am in love. He genuinely makes me happy.

genuinegirly · 10-17-2010, 08:43 AM

The pitch and tone of his voice when he mumbles is both a turn-on and a frustration. I frequently have to ask him to repeat himself, which I don't like, but I adore the sound of his voice even when it is unintelligible.

tasineah · 10-24-2010, 11:13 PM

I have someone I am dating who suprises me with the knowledge he has of my need to be comforted and courted. before being fucked. I have yet to have to even ask for a single creature comfort from him. A foot massage, a back massage, a full body massage, a time in embrace with warmth and tenderness passing between us both before and after....a note sent the morning after, expressing gratitude for the night before. Countless little impecably important things that are often not tended to and yet, he gets them every single time...

its like the best damn foreplay I have ever had

and, quite frankly it matches his lovemaking skills too....

I walk around in a daze half the time wondering if all those drugs I did in the 80s are finally catching up on me now...but no...he is indeed real....

I will gladly take this kind of insanity...

09-27-2010, 02:41 PM	#1 (permalink)
hunnychile Alien Anthropologist Location: Between Boredom and Nirvana	What drives you insane about your lover/SO/Spouse? Mine can be so f**king arrogant that I want to scream! He's always had it all. I never did and I get embarrassed whenever he's curt with a waitperson or rude to someone who seems less intelligent than he is. Now it's your turn Ladies. And, by the way, let's infuse new life and energy to our post here because we can! The Ladies Lounge Rocks!! Let's Do It!! __________________ "I need compassion, understanding and chocolate." - NJB

09-27-2010, 05:03 PM	#3 (permalink)
hunnychile Alien Anthropologist Location: Between Boredom and Nirvana	Lindy, your cross country trip is gonna be a good trip together. Don't dwell on any guilty feelings... because God had another plan for her and it's okay. This is all part of his plan. Just be in the "Present" and feel happy for the" Here & Now". That's the way it's supposed to be and enjoy it. You guys are beginning a new & wonderful phase in your lives. Many blessings to you all. Be open & honest & patient - those feelings never fail. Remember to be kind and wait it it's too painful to discuss while traveling. ** And Thanks for wanting to revive the "Ladies Lounge". We Ladies all deserve to share good stuff together! __________________ "I need compassion, understanding and chocolate." - NJB Last edited by hunnychile; 09-27-2010 at 05:06 PM..

09-29-2010, 07:22 AM	#4 (permalink)
snowy Kick Ass Kunoichi Location: Oregon	I'm going to be honest here: as interested as I am in seeing more posts in the Ladies Lounge (thus this post right here), this thread is not a topic I am interested in. I don't believe this is the place for me to discuss what aggravates me about my husband. When he does aggravate me, I try and take it up with him first. When that isn't possible (i.e. he's out of town or whatever), there are a few select friends who might get to hear about it. I'd rather set things right than just bitch about them, personally. I'd also kind of hoped that this would be a more positive thread, because when I saw the topic I thought it might be something about what sexually drives you insane...the answer to that question is: his cock. __________________ If I am not better, at least I am different. --Jean-Jacques Rousseau

09-29-2010, 08:50 AM	#5 (permalink)
hunnychile Alien Anthropologist Location: Between Boredom and Nirvana	Snowy...you're spot on. Can I have a re-do? Perhaps we can start with POSITIVES LIKE: One thing I DO love is when my man kisses the back of my neck just below my hairline. Very goosebumpy & nice. Makes my knees go weak. __________________ "I need compassion, understanding and chocolate." - NJB

10-02-2010, 06:36 PM	#6 (permalink)
Lady Bear Cub Crazy Location: north carolina	His rolled up socks when I do the laundry. When I unroll them, they are still wet. Or I have to sit there and unroll them all before I put them in the washer. I already had this conversation with him. LOL. Something positive, whenever I talk about him, I am always smiling. People ask me about him and when I answer I don't even realize it. But they always point it out and say they can tell that I am in love. He genuinely makes me happy. __________________ "I give myself very good advice, But I very seldom follow it, Will I ever learn to do the things I should?"

10-17-2010, 08:43 AM	#7 (permalink)
genuinegirly Eat your vegetables Super Moderator Location: Arabidopsis-ville	The pitch and tone of his voice when he mumbles is both a turn-on and a frustration. I frequently have to ask him to repeat himself, which I don't like, but I adore the sound of his voice even when it is unintelligible. __________________ "Sometimes I have to remember that things are brought to me for a reason, either for my own lessons or for the benefit of others." Cynthetiq "violence is no more or less real than non-violence." roachboy

10-24-2010, 11:13 PM	#8 (permalink)
tasineah Crazy Location: NE region of the united states	I have someone I am dating who suprises me with the knowledge he has of my need to be comforted and courted. before being fucked. I have yet to have to even ask for a single creature comfort from him. A foot massage, a back massage, a full body massage, a time in embrace with warmth and tenderness passing between us both before and after....a note sent the morning after, expressing gratitude for the night before. Countless little impecably important things that are often not tended to and yet, he gets them every single time... its like the best damn foreplay I have ever had and, quite frankly it matches his lovemaking skills too.... I walk around in a daze half the time wondering if all those drugs I did in the 80s are finally catching up on me now...but no...he is indeed real.... I will gladly take this kind of insanity...