Vibrators and dildos- for everyone or for some?
 

So in growing up and becoming an adult- one grows the ability to have conversations about sex and masturbation. These conversations are fun to have now because its not the silly akwardness of highschool speak. They have even gone as far to make a business out of girl talk and toys. Pure Romance parties where you can have the pleasure of shopping for sex toys and talking about everything sex in your own home with your girlfriends. I have gone to these parties, been to the sex shops and even purchased some toys of my own. But does the entire female population get off to the toys and masturbation? :confused: You watch Sex and the City and will be convinced that the Rabbit will take you places you have never been before. I will be honest- I was sold. I bought one. And here I am a year later and it sits in my drawer collecting dust.

Am I the only one???????????????????????????????? Am I the only person who gets her kicks strictly from having a guy in the flesh vs toys and my imagination???

I get my kicks from both. The only way I can have multiple orgasms is with my toys... and they're very handy for when my husband is away. :) I wish I had discovered toys a long time ago!

However, my husband "in the flesh" fulfills very different needs, physical combined with emotional (which the toys cannot do)... and that's a whole other experience, and worth a lot more than the toys could ever do.

Masturbation and toys really dont do much for me on my own (I like when Dave and I use things together). I very very very rarely masturbate....I cant even remember the last time....Im pretty sure it was LONG before my surgery last fall.

Give me a guy in the flesh or I dont want it lol

My vibrator is good to me...and I like toys. I've been meaning to buy a Hitachi Magic Wand for a while now. Currently I use a Wahl coil. I generally prefer to use vibes that plug into the wall to masturbate, and vibes with batteries when we use toys during sex. My SO really likes to use toys on me when I'm giving him oral--it's a huge turn-on for him.

I like my toys for when I am desperate for some action and my boyfriend can't be there to do it. I guess when you are in the right frame of mind you can make yourself orgasm with or without a man.

I like both! Both at the same time! :D I'm much more into vibrators than dildos, being a clit-action gal, I guess. (Sounds like a new superhero to me!)

I found a great place to get the Hitachi Magic Wand at a great price (can't remember the website just now, will post it later, from home) and oh HONEY! That is the bom. I've only ever used it on the lower speed setting. The higher speed one just makes me numb. Don't forget to get the attachments! (Aso available where I got my Wand.)

Especially now that toys are my only outlet, I'm especially grateful for them. Of course there's nothing as good as a warm, sweaty, enthusiastic body on yours...but hey, gotta work with what you've got.

I'm definitely a both-at-the-same-time gal as well... little vibe on the clit (the Laya works wonderfully for this) and a nice solid dildo on the inside. I haven't tried the rabbit, but I like being able to move each part on its own, without them being stuck together. Works for me!!

Oops, I need to clarify: I like a guy and a vibe at the same time. :D

Although a vibe and a dildo is good too.

Dang it, this thread is highly distracting (here at work, LOL!)

I love my HMW. I love my husband, but our sex life isn't ... the greatest... and maybe once I've been a member longer than say, a month ( :lol: ), I'll discuss that in greater detail.

For now, let's just say that I discovered on my own that I am indeed multi-orgasmic. I think he was on a business trip at the time. I'm not sure if he knows yet, either. My buddy HMW knows. Oh yes, yes he does.

Also, I bought the attachments, but I've never used them after the first time. I don't get much out of penetration, for some reason. Perhaps I too am one of the super hero girls known as clit-action girls! CAG UNITE! :D

Toys are good (I have a pyrex dildo and a vibrator), but I much prefer Xepherys to the toys, although we do sometimes like to use them in our lovemaking :) Since he deployed, however, it's been just me and my toys. *sigh* They're all I get for now :(

We two are now officially a Superhero group! Who will join forces with us, and battle the archvillian "No-Foreplay?!?"

If you are not for us, you are against us.

Amen, sista.