Sue

I just had this huge, overwhelming feeling of loneliness come crashing in to me.

I feel so alone, and I feel like crying.

sailor

Im sorry! Remember, you've got a lot of great people here to talk to if you need it...

Can you think of why you might be feeling that?

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warrrreagl

Music is always my answer. Not necessarily finding a solution, but simply finding someone else to cry with. I suggest Hank Williams in your case.


Hear that lonesome whippoorwill
He sounds too blue to fly
The midnight train is whining low
I'm so lonesome I could cry

I've never seen a night so long
When time goes crawling by
The moon just went behind the clouds
To hide its face and cry

Did you ever see a robin weep?
When leaves begin to die
Like me he's lost the will to live
I'm so lonesome I could cry

The silence of a falling star
Lights up a purple sky
And as I wonder where you are
I'm so lonesome I could cry


For me, it's a great relief to know that someone else feels the same way, no matter how impossible that may seem at first.

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Cynthetiq

that's what makes us human. when it happens to me i have to remind myself that it's like all emotions, it will pass. as odd as it sounds i try my hardest to relish in "feeling it" and enjoy it after the fact.

i wish you well.

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Sue

A 6 year relationship I had ended recently.

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Cynthetiq

sorry to hear that.

i wish you strength too...

Rodney

Damn. That sure leaves a hole in your life. But we're all here for you to bounce your feelings off of, and for any support we can offer. Total best wishes.

fhqwhgads

tecoyah

You are Truly, not alone. Remember what community means.

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Holding onto anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned. - Buddha

Latch

Sorry to hear about the relationship... remember you're still loved.. and there's a whole group of people here who care about you

ShaniFaye

Sue darlin....I feel for you I really truly do.....Use us thats what we are here for...

when Im done this always makes me smile (well actually all of these do...but this one is my favorite)



http://www.illwillpress.com/squirrelsongs.html

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Scorps

Just remember yur family is alwasy there for you. If not then we are


I split with my GF of 7 years last year....sad day. It took me some time to get over it, but I guess it was the best for her, me and our daughter(to much fighting in the last 2 years)! I moved back home and family is always the best help!

stonegrody

Sorry to hear that, Sue. Break ups are never easy no matter what side you're on. If you feel like ranting about it, please do. We got your back!

maleficent

If you feel like crying, go ahead and cry... There's lots of people who will pass you virtual tissues and hold your hand. If you feel like screaming, go ahead and scream, we won't mind.

Don't look back on what you've lost, look ahead to what you have gained. There's so much more happiness and joy ahead of you in your life...

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william

Pain is a mother, but a necessary part of life. Life may seem like shit right now, but it will get better. You are not alone in your feelings, you just need a little help dealing w/your feelings. Let these feelings out - to those willing to help you. It's okay to cry.

Beefimator

Just let us know what we can do. Remember you aren't the only one that has gone through this.

xepherys

My deepest sympathies...