Slims

I said farewell when I was ten, but I couldn't get rid of it until I was fifteen.

I was at the beach with a friend and his family. We got bored and went for a walk after dinner. I met a girl who started to hit on me, but I didn't realize it until a stranger asked why I was ignoring her. After that we hit it off and one thing led to another. We had sex right there on the beach with people walking by. It took forever, maybe a half hour for me to come the first time, and two more hours for the second time. The whole time my friend kept yelling that we needed to leave and I kept making him go for walks. When I finally finished and we started walking back, we ran into his aunt, who was walking up the beach looking for us.

For the life of me I can't remember her name.

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eyeronic

18. She was 24 and also a virgin.

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alpha

I was 18, she was 17. We're still together.

lady

25, still a virgin... "technically"

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teph

I was 18; she was 17.

We planned it for a long time; I was resistant to the thought of anything more than foreplay - my sisters have both had children out of wedlock. But we used two forms of birth control, dated for two years, and it was great. No awkwardness, nothing uncomforatable. From start to finish took us about two hours.

We dated for another year after that and called it quits. Very loving relationship, though.

SysteMatiC

i was 14 she was 17 we did it in a tree house, in a neighbors back yard

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oblar

i was 16 and she was nearly 15. my room, on the floor, before parents got home...

fun times don't regret it at all.. I have only been with 1 other person since then and I am 21 now...

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rockwaldo

a nice round 15.....and that was after waiting for 6 months as whenever we tried it hurt her........which means ive got something to boast about perhaps.......
(that or the fact that she was only 15 as well....heh)

Atropos4

I was 18 and Alpha phi (my Hubby ) was 27.

I lived with him for about a month before I felt I was ready.
Middle of the day in the bedroom.

(edit) Not alpha phi's first time

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Xiomar

19. She was older. By about 10 years. I learned alot in those years. Enough to catch me up AND put me way ahead of the game.

ariekitten

i was 18, in college and really wishing i wasn't a virgin....
then a month before my 19th birthday, it just "happened"

it was a good experience and i had lots of fun

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Xapphire

14 in a playground, with my boyfriend who was 15, I'd told him I didn't want to, but I didn't press the issue *wishes she could go back and beat some knowledge into both of us*
He, of course, then went to school and told his best friend, who told everyone. I denied it all, and broke up with him.

My second time was at 14 too, he was 18, and while I should have been smarter, I was madly in love with him. Then we broke up because his ex was pregnant, man I hated her. Looking back I am almost amused at how dumb I was, and how grown up I thought I was.

My third was at 14 too, gah. This one was with a friend the 2nd had introduced me to, but I hadn't gotten to know until the summer, at, of all things, a church ski camp. Another one-off /sigh.

Wisened up a bit, and didn't have sex again til I was 16, and Jon was 17, we dated for a year and a half, but the sex was only in the middle of the relationship, but that's another story.

If we were allowed to change who our first was, make all the irrelevant ones disappear, Jon would have been the first.

Wow, that was a mountain made out of a molehill of a question. I'll stop there as the next is my husband.

mtsgsd

18, she was 17. Especially memorable because she had never achieved orgasm with her prior boyfriend, and then turn out to be multi!!! Those were the days

~springrain

i was raped on my 17th birthday... that's how i "lost" my virginity...

how's that for a "keepsake moment"?

needless to say it was horrible time in my life... but that was a long, long time ago... time heals many wounds...

...life is strange... and horrible... and wonderful... all in the same breath...

VirFighter

I'm 19 and still have it for the time being. Looking for the right girl and I feel like I might have found her but not sure if it will work out or not.

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xavier

13, I don't know why I did then, I didn't want to I just gave in to my 15 year old bf. Never really enjoyed it until I was about 16. When I became 17 I turned into a nimpho. Sex is the greatest thing in the world. I miss it now though, haven't got any in three weeks (since me and my bf went our seperate ways) and that is very unusual for me. It sucks

HiThereDear

19. God, so many wasted years.

mtsgsd

18. She was 17. In her parents living room on the couch while her parents were away for something.

KeyserSoze

Well, I was 12 and the Audio Visual monitor in school(basically I spent a period in a room showing tapes of whatever classes wanted all by myself)..anyhoo, these 2 girls were ditching and paid me a visit and asked if they could hang out in my room......of course I said yes. Well we got to talking and we played a little truth or dare and next thing you know they are both NAKED ,so they stripped off my clothes and it was NASTY TIME

It was also the first time I had seen two girls get it on with eachother that was not in print

What can I say....It's LOST ANGELES!!

Whats the definition of a virgin in Los Angeles??

An ugly third grader.

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you all were 12 ???

times certainly are changing...

KeyserSoze

The girls were 14 and 16

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ninety09

Not yet.
Had a few opportunities, but I don't want to sleep with someone that I don't really love.

grneyedcat

I was 14 he was 15.....The year was 74....Now we've been married for 21 years..Ain't luv grand...

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eyeronic

I think on the old board this was a poll. It should be again! I was 18 which I think is towards the end of average.

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Marrek

I'm 19 and I still own mine, I'm not sure if I just haven't found the right girl or what. Maybe I'm waiting for marriage and don't realize it. *shrug*

MSD

Still going. Not in a rush. If the right girl comes along, it'll happen. If not, might not be until I'm married. Who knows?

BBtB

Its most defintly okay. Don't let anyone tell you differntly

See I have the same thought but I must say.. Damn that would have been fun though. But then again I have had sex so few times and its been so long I basically consider myself a virgin. That was just a fluke. I rarely think about that much anymore.

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Tom Thumb

18, and still have it. Ehh.

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Daval

I was 18. First week in college in the dorms. I was in a hurry

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mystmarimatt

i hate you all. 18 and still waiting

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don't worry... you have your entire life to explore discover and enjoy all parts of sex...
think of it this way... you could be one of us who had a terrible experience the first time... that would be much worse than waiting...

BBtB

I used to feel the EXACT same way. Then I had sex. And was severally disapointed. Then had it again and it was fun. Then that was about it. All I am saying is sex isn't as great as all the primals would have you believe.

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"I would like about three fiddy"

oblar

<font color="yellow">Forks</font>: Why get mad at her whether or not she is a virgin? What use would it be to tell you she is if she wasn't? No offense, but I really don't hold virginity as high as others do. Personally, I really detest those people who enjoy only having sex with virgins for either their record or they think they feel so much better..

as far as 12... damn... yeah, I don't even think I hit puberty yet and I thought 14 was young*grin*

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miykael

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for me, 18.
she wasn't a virgin, and she definitely wasn't inexperienced.
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TheDave87

me and my virginity are still kickin it on a daily basis

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smithja0423

@ 17 in 1997 - in the back seat of my new car after a homecoming dance. I hope she straightened herself out - we broke up after 3.5 years

null_duality

lost it when i was 19, we waited till she was 18.
broke up 3 months later...
havn't been laid since and it's been over a year now.

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One question which may spark a heated debate: If you have oral sex are you still a virgin?

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BBtB

There was actully was actully a really good thread about this at one point. I forget what it was called (or how it panned out) "What is sex?" or something like that. The general consenus (that I agreed with atleast) is that sex is more of a state of being. By that definition (and my own personal thoughts) oral sex is most definitely sex so therefore... I will let you come up your own answer to your specfic question.

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"I would like about three fiddy"

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Ok, well based on Bob's explanation, I lost it at 16, to my 3rd girlfriend at night, in a park on some childrens playground equipment after a friends party.

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