08-02-2005, 01:01 PM | #444 (permalink) |
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Not old enough. Sexuality, I've found, has direct ties to maturity and the bond between two people that is meant to last (presumably matrimony). Sexuality as recreation is a representation of the inmaturity of those who engage in it. I say enjoy sex, but with someone you know that you'll be with for a very long time. Of course, that's just my personal belief based on experience and history.
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08-02-2005, 06:18 PM | #446 (permalink) |
beauty in the breakdown
Location: Chapel Hill, NC
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20. I wasnt ever in a relationship I considered serious enough until then. It was her first time, too, and I don't regret it in the least.
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08-03-2005, 04:56 AM | #447 (permalink) |
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Location: Arizona
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16, she was 15. Didn't feel wrong at the time, but looking back we both probably should have waited a few more years.
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08-03-2005, 05:16 AM | #448 (permalink) |
Upright
Location: The Land Of Manna-AKA Australia!
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At 19, I was 'broken in' by she 17. Looking back, the act itself was over-rated (duhhhh!!), but it's still one of the most romantic nights of my life. We planned for a warm moonlit night on a secluded beach. It was worth the wait and the effort to make it something special. There's definite value in the art of romance, as well as the reckless abandon of pure lust. Trick is getting the balance right, ha.
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08-03-2005, 08:55 AM | #450 (permalink) |
The Mighty Boosh
Location: I mostly come out at night, mostly...
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18, she was 17.
It'll always stick in my mind, not because it was my first time, but because looking back, it was so funny! We we're on the bed but it was squeaking so we moved to he floor. But, we moved too close to the wall and with each thrust, she was hitting her head on the skirting board! I don't know why we didn't move...
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08-03-2005, 11:10 AM | #451 (permalink) |
Fade out
Location: in love
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I was 18, he was 18. It was perfect and amazing, we had sex three times that first day, six years later, We're married now
Sweetpea
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08-04-2005, 05:36 PM | #458 (permalink) |
Crazy
Location: Nunya
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Lets just say it was awkward. I was a virgin until I was 19 years old. I was with a guy for three months and bam! That was it.... all hope for my innocence was lost! haha Though it was very awkward, I did continue to date the same guy for another year and a half. I remember listening to 'Your Body is a Wonderland' when we were getting it on for the first time. Crazy times... I laugh when I think about it now...
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08-04-2005, 05:38 PM | #459 (permalink) |
Upright
Location: Missouri
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We were both 17, in the back of a buddy of mine's truck following a Charlie Daniels concert.
Lasted about two seconds. I was proud as hell.
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08-04-2005, 05:40 PM | #460 (permalink) | |
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Location: Nunya
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09-28-2005, 09:27 PM | #462 (permalink) |
Crazy
Location: Grand Junction, CO
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19 years old, and I'm embarrased to say this, but I am still a Virgin. I came close the other night, when a girl from my hometown came down to see one of my plays. We made out for six hours, and I touched my first bare titty, and she was the first person to grab my bare junk. Not that you want those details. I'm just very happy about it.
Time to take a cold shower. That and I'm scared of talking to girls.
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10-06-2005, 02:36 AM | #469 (permalink) |
Upright
Location: UK
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If you're asking me - I don't wish I had waited any longer. I was pretty independent and mature by that time - knew enough to make sure I was with someone who cared about and respected me and was prepared with birth control, etc.
I don't think I would have thought of all of that if I had been any younger though - so it happened at a good age for me. Do you wish you had waited longer? And if so, why? (sounds like a short answer question on a test or something - you have to excuse me - I'm a teacher- it must be in my dna or something). |
10-06-2005, 03:50 AM | #471 (permalink) |
Husband of Seamaiden
Location: Nova Scotia
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20. Felt like I was going to have it forever. then an older friend (29),true redhead, came down from the city for the weekend when my parents where at the cottage. I seduced her (rather inexpertly) and we did it in the guest room bed. It creaked a lot, and everytime it did, she jumped 'cause she had once been walked in on by her old boyfriend's mother while they were doing it. didn't really enjoy it the first time (I remember phoning a friend the next day, and asking if I had to do that again!), but have learned to enjoy it more over the years. Lost touch with her soon after, but would love to get in touch again.
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11-14-2005, 12:55 PM | #473 (permalink) |
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Location: 18,000+ posts on TFP #1,2,3,4 and 5,but I'm not counting!
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"MY OLD LADY" get mad when I say she was 13,so I'll do the politically correct thing and sat ...."she was almost 14 and I was 16"......43 years ago!!! XOXOXOO
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11-14-2005, 01:31 PM | #474 (permalink) | |
will always be an Alyson Hanniganite
Location: In the dust of the archives
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11-15-2005, 07:43 AM | #475 (permalink) | |
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11-19-2005, 12:43 PM | #478 (permalink) |
Adequate
Location: In my angry-dome.
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I said goodbye to my virginity at 14 but the bastard wouldn't leave for another two years.
It was me and my first love in the back seat of my '71 Firebird. Given the space restrictions it was a better workout than Pilates. For the same reason I'd say it was more significant than great. Great came later.
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