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First Same Sex Divorce
Now they really *are* equal...
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Why is this a suprise? Just because you're not straight doesn't mean you're perfect. Not all relationships work out.
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Who said it was a suprise?
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Kind if a non-issue if you ask me. The media is all over it as it's the first "Gay Divorce" but it's not that big of a deal.
I have to wonder if the anti-gay camp is going to jump on this or just (wisely) keep quiet. |
more than 50 percent of marriages end in divorce so it was sort of a forgone conclusion that some gay marriages would also end in divorces.
Who honestly cares.... one more couple who got married that shouldn't have... it's the people not their sexual persuasion that caused the divorce.. |
I agree that this is a non-issue and am not surprised at all.
I think it is newsworthy in its novelty as the first... |
I think what makes it newsworthy is how fast it happened. Only 5 days afterword.
A lot of people are going to look at this and try to use it as an example of why they shouldn't be allowed to marry- because they do not take the union as sacred as do others. If they do, it would be a joke- many straight marriages end the same way, some sooner. Just my thoughts on how people might react to this. This has nothign to do with what I feel, which borders on indifference. |
I find it rather ironic that they separated 5 days after marriage...
... after being in a relationship for 5 years perhaps because they rushed into marriage as soon as it was available to them? (7 days) If you havent thought through the kind of effect something like marriage will have on a relationship and then you go ahead and do it anyway, you are asking for a disaster like this. In addition to Rubyee, I think it would be more than a joke. Hetero couples get married for far worse reasons - by and large - than gay couples. Although I'm still sure someone will enter a homosexual relationship for money through marriage sometime in the future, I can only hope it doesnt get blown out of proportion... Kinda like this. |
Given Britney Spears can have a marriage that lasts less than 24 hours, I don't really see the big deal here. How long is it gonna be before gay marriage is as unremarkable to the media as it is to me?
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I think it's great as an example of my personal belief:
the media will report anything, and make it seem like it's important. |
This thread got me to thinking about a few things.
I am not married, nor have I ever been, but I know that in our quest to find equality of the sexes, divorce courts in no way practice in the equality of a man and woman when it comes to splitting up. You all hear the stories of how a man loses his house and has to pay more than his fair share of support for the woman. Not saying this is true in all cases, but in general, men have had the short end of the stick. Now, what happens with same sex marraiges? This brings up a whole new set of rules that need to be applied when a couple splits up, or new rules if they have adopted and one party is seeking custody of said child. It seems kind of ironic to me that the only equality that can be reached in a divorce court is because a same sex marraige is ending. I dunno, just rambling now..... |
Traditionally "Men get the short end of the stick" because in "traditional" marriages men are the greater bread-winner.
Women's roles as housemaker and child rearer have a value that the court recognizes and they are compensated accordingly... Some men think this is a rip-off because they worked hard for their money and posessions and all the woman did was sit at home... As for same sex divorce... I would expect it would play out like any seperation without a prenuptual... 50/50 split of the assets. I was thinking the same thing about the speed of the seperation, 5 days, and how this might be used against the cause... In the end, there are a lot of straight couples who do the same. If anything this just underscores that Same Sex Marriages are no different than Straight Marriages... People are the same wherever you go. |
The whole thing is not newsworthy IMHO. Anyhow, isn't it technically an annulment not a divorce?
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This is just more proof that homosexuals have no respect for the sanctity or marriage! Unlike we the straight community who give it the respect it deserves!
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Just a matter of time.
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Who will keep the children?
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I may be really cynical but....
it just seems like two people who wanted their 15 minutes of fame.. and decided to get it by demanding the Divorce Act be changed. For a couple that's together for five years, why would they divorce after 5 days? Seems a bit odd (although yeah, I'm sure it can happen for true reasons). I dunno.. just sounds like someone thought 'hey, this gay marriage thing is making a lot of news, lets be the first to start the gay divorce issue'. I can't pull out any facts that completely back that up (the lawyer's comments kinda help, though).. it's just a feeling I got reading it. |
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very good point... I could be wrong, I'm just typing as I think but I think the reason that men get the short end of the stick is because men are just tired of it all and want out, women, being masters of manipulating men, take advantage of this. "why go and ruin a perfectly good relationship by getting married?" -Joe Rogan |
How did I know that when you said "Same sex divorce" that it would be two women breaking it off?
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I think it just goes to show you that there are greater threats to marriage and the family than gay marriage. I think Bush has his head so far up his ass on this gay marriage thing that he can probably taste his tonsils. And I voted for the man.
Commence the booing and hissing...wait for it…now. |
The part that peeves me is that although I support gay unions, partnerships, marriages, whatever,... is that these people seemingly have the right of privacy that normally isn't accorded to others in traditional marriages.
If I am someone of some notoriety and am in the midst of a divorce, I highly doubt that my identity would be protected in the media. So why is theirs? Because they are gay? Big fucking deal. These people fight to be treated as equal to everyone else then yet are shielded because of what? Their gayness? So much for equality. |
The reason men usually get the short end of the stick in divorces is because a lot of people think that a child's rightful place is with his mother. If the mother is deemed unfit, however, the mother has to pay child support and the father takes the children.
It doesn't have anything to do with lazy men wanting out or the manipulative ways of women :rolleyes: |
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why is the childs rightfull place with the mother...? that doesnt seem to make sense to me... |
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