clavus

She was 33. She looked 63.

You only get one body, folks. Abuse it now, pay the price later.

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Speed_Gibson

My sympathies for the loss.
not that is really my business, but did she smoke/drink/etc excessively to hasten her demise or was it other things like cancer/occupational hazards/etc?

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Sorry for your loss, clavus.
My condolences.

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Stare At The Sun

That is so sad, my prayers are with you clavus. Good luck, it's never easy to bury loved ones.

sam95519

Sorry for your loss, my prayers are with you.

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bing bing

You have my condolences Clavus. I hope you get through it ok.

micah67

I'm truly sorry for your loss.

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WarWagon

Best of luck for you and your family during these hard times

:::OshnSoul:::

Oh, dear. I am sorry to hear that.

Yes, take care of your body. It *could* last a long time if you treat it right.

moonstrucksoul

so sorry.

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mattevil

I hope any pain you have eventually turns into understanding or really anything more beneficial than what's going on in your current period of life.

bermuDa

My condolences to you and your family, Clavus. I think I'll take your advice and take care of this earthly vessel.

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hu-man

Sorry to hear that, Clavus. I'm sending out good thoughts to you and your family.
Luckily the only problems I have with my body is a little pot belly, but that can be taken care of by situps. Some people aren't that lucky.

analog

I'm very sorry to hear this, Clavus. I'm sorry it had to come to you in this way, but sometimes life's greatest lessons are the hardest to accept.

Much love to you and yours, and a place in my prayers tonight,

-analog.

Latch

Sorry to hear that Clavus. Hope you and your family are handling it "OK" (if that's even possible). Take care...

tecoyah

be strong, be grateful for the time she had here.....and remember, you have an entire community to talk to.

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My thoughts and prayers are with you.

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Craven Morehead

So sorry. 33 is too young, regardless of what happened. Take care.

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Bill O'Rights

I am...so sorry. Yes, 33 is way too young.

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My condolenses, I am sorry for you, and your family. Thankyou for the advice.

quadro2000

Many many condolences, Clavus. All of us are better for having heard your advice.

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sorry man.

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clavus, so sorry to hear of your loss. You have friends here if you need them. My prayers are with you and your family.

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Condolences, Clavus.
If you need to talk about this, you have a community of eager ears. If you don't want to, we all support you.

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pocon1

I am sorry to hear of your loss, and the loss of your son's aunt.

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I'm sorry for your loss. Best wishes on getting through this difficult time.

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I'm so sorry to hear about your loss, Clavus

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Im sorry for your loss

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clavus

Thanks, all.

My sister led a life of short sighted self-indulgence. Her mind, body and personal life were destroyed by her addiction to immediate gratification in all forms – food, sex, drugs, etc.

After overdosing on god-knows-what drug, her kidneys failed. She did not go to dialysis regularly, because she was “too busy” and didn’t like the doctors telling her what to do.

All in all, my sister was a pretty crappy person. Even before she got into drugs, she lied to, stole from, and hurt those around her. She had no regard for the future – her own or anybody else’s, and left a wake of destruction behind. Somewhere out there, there is a daughter she abandoned who probably doesn’t even know here mother is dead.

If we lived in a world where drugs did not exist, she would have still found a way to destroy herself and hurt people around her.

I am not saddened by her passing. She brought it on herself. But my mom and dad are devastated. It is for them that I mourn.

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flamingdog

My thoughts are with you and yours.

qtpye4u84

I felt the same way when my best friends twin brother died cause he was always mean to me.
BUt it does hurt when some one is around your age and you see them like that.
I hope you and the family are okay. She was family so you must love her some where in your heart.
The doctor say's my brother has 2 years,
Did you know she was going to die how many years did the doctor's say she was going to live or did you think she was going to die this soon?

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sailor

I dont know what I can say that hasnt already been said... Im sorry man... If not for you, then at least for your parents' grieving.

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clavus

That's terrible. My thoughts are with you.

I knew my sis would die sooner than later. But I never had a timeframe.

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SecretMethod70

Sad to hear about your sister. Even sadder to hear she led such a life to make it possible that you feel the way you do regarding her death. Best of luck to you and your family dealing with this

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Sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.

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meembo

Sorry. I've got a cluster of cancer fighters in my family right now, and in a short time I think I'll be burying a sibling

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Condolences, and my sympathies to all those with ill siblings.

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bernadette

condolences for your family & you, clavis.

the walks people walk... i don't think they set out to say "hey! i'm gonna fuck up my life & my body & intentionally make everyone around me suffer."
no. i don't believe they think that at all.
just circumstances & internal wiring gone wrong...

i hope you have a few good memories somewhere of your sister.
i hope your sister has found peace now.

*hugs*

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Kaos

My condolences for you and your family.

A very good friend of mine was in the same situation. His sister destroyed her life (I won't go into detail) but near the end, the family and him hoped for death since she was in terrible shape.

When she finally passed away, as much as my friend knew that death was better for her, it still hurt him greatly and still does. I saw what he went through, and I hope things will be ok for you and you family.

raeanna74

My prayers are with you and your family. I hope they can find comfort soon.

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