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Old 01-08-2004, 02:37 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Need help interpereting what she said...

Have a question for you guys...

Met this girl from tuttle, which is a town about an hour away from me. Really hot girl, nice too. After a week of not calling her (I was the one calling her usually) , she text me:

"Hey guy! I hope ur phone doesn't go off! But I have a question. What are you doing tomorrow?"

Text 2:

"HEEEY! Lol, well, why? it's cuz my friends and i are going 2 the movies and I want u 2 meet 1 of my friends! So write me if you get this, if not call me l8r"

I can't text, so I haven't responded yet, nor have I called, but I will. Question is, do you think she's trying to set me up with another girl? After all, it could just mean that she was talking to one of her friends about how she liked me, and that friend told her that she wanted to meet me to see what I was about.

I've only met the girl once for like an hour or two, and she's already told me that she's attracted to me and my personality, but I'm just curious if she didn't want to pursue, or maybe she likes another guy now.

Any ideas? Thanks all.
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Old 01-08-2004, 02:40 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Shouldnt this go in Tilted Sexuality?
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Old 01-08-2004, 02:42 PM   #3 (permalink)
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It's general discussion, is it not?
Instead of wasting space, how about answering the question.
I've already given him my answer.
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Old 01-08-2004, 02:43 PM   #4 (permalink)
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well, yes, but I've posted it in the "Getting girls 101" thread... and I know that doesn't get VERY frequent traffic, and I need some advice soon, so why not here.
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Old 01-08-2004, 02:45 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Regardless of where it should go....

You should definately ask her, when you call her 'l8r'

Either way sounds like a win-win sitch. Either she likes you, or has someone for you.

Gut reaction tells me she wants to introduce you to a friend to get that friends approval on you.

Sounds to me like your in like flynn.

good on ya...

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Old 01-08-2004, 03:14 PM   #6 (permalink)
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haha... indeed. We'll see what happesn, thanks.
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Old 01-08-2004, 03:25 PM   #7 (permalink)
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Re: Need help interpereting what she said...

Quote:
Originally posted by Driv300mph
"HEEEY! Lol, well, why? it's cuz my friends and i are going 2 the movies and I want u 2 meet 1 of my friends! So write me if you get this, if not call me l8r"
Sounds to me like she wants to set you up with her friend. But that's just my opinion and what I interpreted from that Text.

Girls introduce guys to their friends after they start dating someone, not before usually.

Go for it anyways, and see how it plays out.
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Old 01-08-2004, 04:07 PM   #8 (permalink)
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Aye, I smell blind date from that as well.
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Old 01-08-2004, 04:45 PM   #9 (permalink)
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I must agree that I don't think you can lose here mate, either you go out with her, or you get a chance to meet one of her mates! I mean even if nothign becomes you never know you could have another friend.. and if you wanna think futhre down teh relationship line.... she will also have friends
Good luck, post us on how it goes!
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Old 01-08-2004, 04:50 PM   #10 (permalink)
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She wants to have a threesome. GO FOR IT!
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Old 01-08-2004, 06:09 PM   #11 (permalink)
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in the immortal words of Trent from Swingers:

"I don't care if I go out with her or one of her beautiful baby friends"

As long as her friend isn't fugly, you got it made. Just make sure that you figure out which one you are supposed to be going for early in the date, so as not to offend anybody.
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Old 01-08-2004, 10:21 PM   #12 (permalink)
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"my friends and i are going 2 the movies and I want u 2 meet 1 of my friends!"

she didnt say she wants you to meet her friends, but rather ONE of her friends. that means she wants to set you up with her friend. this may or may not be a good thing. despite what TV and the movies show you, beautiful women do NOT travel in packs. there is typically 1 (ONE) really good looking babe, one average chick and one really fat or ugly girl. the chances of this other girl being as hot, or hotter, than the one you are interested in are very slim.

go for it anyway, I say. hell, even if girl #2 is fat or ugly, you might get a hummer in the theater.
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Old 01-09-2004, 08:21 AM   #13 (permalink)
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Go with the flow dude, what can it hurt either way?
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Old 01-09-2004, 11:35 AM   #14 (permalink)
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Just go, and make your decision there about what to do. Cross that bridge when you get to it....
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Old 01-09-2004, 01:34 PM   #15 (permalink)
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You never know about situations like this. There was this girl that was flirting with me on a hayride in college. We were all drinking and having a good time. We got to the end of the ride, and we had a bonfire going with logs to sit on. I was sitting next to her when I had to go use the restroom. When I came back, her best friend had changed places with her friend, so that I was now forced to sit next to the friend. I thought it was strange and started talking to the friend. It turned out she was more into me than her friend was. I couldn't have told that on the hayride since she hadn't said one word to me the whole time. I ended up sleeping with her the same night.
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Old 01-09-2004, 02:23 PM   #16 (permalink)
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best case - she wants to have a threesome with you and her friend (or a foursome?)

worst case - she wants to set you up with the most bitchy, evil, vindictive woman on the face of the planet, who also happens to look like Genghis Kahn (no offence to ladies who may indeed look like Gengis Kahn, of course)

In either case, its easy to get out diplomatically, so go for it, and play it by ear. Can't go anywhere without taking a chance anyway...
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Old 01-09-2004, 03:24 PM   #17 (permalink)
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I think it means that she wants u 2 meet 1 of her friends.

Don't read into things. Life's a lot simpler that way.
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Old 01-09-2004, 05:17 PM   #18 (permalink)
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Quote:
Originally posted by Sion
"my friends and i are going 2 the movies and I want u 2 meet 1 of my friends!"

she didnt say she wants you to meet her friends, but rather ONE of her friends. that means she wants to set you up with her friend.
That's exactly how I interpreted it.
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Old 01-09-2004, 06:20 PM   #19 (permalink)
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Something I have noticed is that a sometimes a woman who wants you, but doesn't think she has a chance with you, will try to set you up with her friends since she doesn't think she can have you.

Either way, you can't lose.
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Old 01-09-2004, 06:29 PM   #20 (permalink)
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Can't you just ask her? Maybe not directly, but insinuate what this is all about. I'd probably do that instead of wondering what will happen.
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Old 01-11-2004, 09:32 AM   #21 (permalink)
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I wouldnt try to understand the situation before I got there. Just put on extra aftershave, your biggest grin, thank your lucky stars (either way) and go see.

And do let us know...
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Old 01-11-2004, 09:51 AM   #22 (permalink)
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I think it means that she wants u 2 meet 1 of her friends.

Don't read into things. Life's a lot simpler that way.
Listen to ratbastid. Don't read into things that aren't there. Just go with the flow. It's a win-win situation. Either you hook up with her, hook up with her friend, or you make two new friends. Let us know what happens.
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Old 01-12-2004, 04:41 PM   #23 (permalink)
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Well?!?!
It's been 4 days, so what happened?
I just gotta know now!
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Old 01-14-2004, 06:52 AM   #24 (permalink)
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Sounds like either she's looking for approval from her friend, or she approves of you for her friend. I concur with the "win win sitch" comment above!

edit: fill us in on what happened!
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Old 01-14-2004, 07:03 AM   #25 (permalink)
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Skip the extra aftershave. A lot of movie goers will appreciate that.
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Old 01-14-2004, 07:21 AM   #26 (permalink)
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I'm curious to. What happened with this?
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Old 01-14-2004, 02:28 PM   #27 (permalink)
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It looked to me like she was trying to set up her wing (wo)man.
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Old 01-14-2004, 04:12 PM   #28 (permalink)
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Bro, stop reading into it and just call her back if you want. If she is setting you up with her friend, great. If she is using that as an excuse to see you, great. Either way sounds like you are about to hang out with two girls that want to see you. Take it for what it is and don't waste time overanalyzing it.
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