AL9045

This has happened to me like 5 times this year, so many new girls look exactly the same, so I'm not really sure which one I want to date...I thought it was one of these girls, but it turns out that's someone else. What should I do now? I'm soooo confused.

Thanks.

Psivage

Sit her down and say "Look I'm sorry but I thought you were someone else, I never liked you. Please go away."

sexymama

Pay better attention.

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Angel

I agree with sexymama.
And to further elaborate, I can't imagine any two women looking THAT much alike that you confuse them. (unless, of course, they are twins)
If it is simply a pretty girl that you are looking to have fun with and not a relationship, odds are good this will continue to be a problem. (yet I still don't get how)
If you are looking for companionship and you want girl who shares her world with you, it is time you begin looking into the heart and soul... I can promise you that you will not get confused when you truly KNOW somebody.

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spived2

Try to lay off the booze a little. That might clear up some of your vision problems

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AL9045

I swear, girls wearing field hockey jerseys look the same to me, except for the number.

I even asked my friends, and they were like "Wait which one are you talking about again?"

Women that look alike...agh. .

They're all hot though, so that works out.

lurkette

Names are an easy way to tell people apart. Learn them.

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Sledge

You must not have spent much time with them. I don't think anyone mixes up faces of non-strangers - we're wired to tell people apart after two or three meetings.

Get to know each and the rest will follow.

ratbastid

And what's with that "so many new girls".... Odd choice of words.

You know girls these days... these late-model girls. Seems like every manufacturer's 2004-model-year girl looks exactly the same.

bermuDa

i never get girls mixed up, can't really help ya bro D;

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Giant Hamburger

Hail AL9045!

Apparently the Random Girl Generators in your geographic area are malfunctioning. The mirroring, field hockey uniforms, and accelerated body temperatures are telltale signs of system failure. I suggest a quick call to your provider and let them know there are problems. They will no doubt fix the trouble quickly and probably credit your account for the loss of service.
Good luck,
-GH

raeanna74

Go out with the girl you asked. You just might have a good time. If you aren't interested in a second date though don't make any pretences of calling her up again or going out again. Just say "Thanks for the good time. I'll see ya around." Then take out the girl you had originally intended to go with. You just might end up making a friend.

Hubby and one of his best friends looked a lot alike when I met them. I was constantly getting them mixed up too. Everyone thought they were at least brothers if not twins sometimes. I can understand this sort of thing happening.

I'd still go out with the one girl and have a good time. Think of it as a practice round and maybe you'll learn a thing or too. Good luck.

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Memalvada

This has happened to me before too: These two girls have similar names, and i got confused...

Fortunately, I am not interested in either of them, and they didnt mind...

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AL9045

See, I didn't exactly make the biggest mistake. I didn't make a move or anything yet, I caught the mistake before I did.

I just thought I really wanted to date one girl, but it turns out that she was someone else...

Rubyee

This post makes me feel so good about being a woman.

No offense, but you got them confused? I don't understand how that can happen. You must not have liked the other girl that much.

Word of advice- if you continue things with this girl, don't tell her this. Ever.

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AL9045

They just look the exact same, so I get confused. Plus they are both on the field hockey team, so that screws me up even more.

And that's good advice. .

bundy

i´m not entirely sure how you can mix-up people... unless you´re always out on the turps in dark bars where you can´t hear their names for the pumping ´80s music.

i forgot a girls name once... but i didn´t confuse her for someone else... i just called her honey, baby and such until i had the opportunity to see her drivers licence...

perhaps a brief sabatical from women in general is in order to refresh your memory.

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phredgreen

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get them nametags

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i had to.

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cruisergirl

Have you ever actually spoken with these women? I can't imagine that not only do they look the same, but they act and sound the same and maybe say all the same things? Maybe one has a mole on her face you can use as a marker.....

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Sleepyjack

Do you forget other peoples names as well, ie guys name?

Maybe you're looking at their breasts too much?
Although if they had nametags, then thats where'd they be, so.....