What is your personal definition of a slut?
 

Ive been thinking and I wanted your opinion.

what do you mean when you call a girl or guy a slut?

is it that she/he has sex all the time just to have sex

or that they have sex with anything that has a dick and it doesnt matter


also another one is. . .

would you call someone a slut if they have had a few partners but they were all boyfriends that they spent time with before doing anything?

A girl is a slut if they are willing to sleep with everybody but me.

I like gregs definition. But I am going to go more with your second option there. Sex with a number of people just for sex.

Nah, i reckon that's more of a bitch.
A slut will just fuck everyone...

I don't call people sluts, I think it's demeaning. If someone enjoys sex, then it's their perogative to do what they want.

pretty much.

a slut sleeps around with a lot of people without much dating.

has a lot of different partners in a short amt of time.

Someone who uses sex as a substitute for self-esteem.

I like that one rockzilla, i like it a lot.

Slut, in the sexual insult sense, is a very silly term.

Stud, Is the term for men, but much more flattering.

Personally, I think anyone who would use the term derogatively and seriously is pretty judgemental, and following from that, weak in themselves.

My $0.02

No, I think damaged or disfunctional are more correct terms for that...

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I was gonna go on a speel about one of my ex's, but I'll spare you the baggage ;)

I was gonna post, but Rockzilla hit it on the head.

I'll add that I would never call a girl a slut, if that's what they truly are, you should pity them, but not with pity sex.

I only call someone a slut if I really like them.....

Actually, I have difficulty imagining this hurting the feelings of any girls I know. But then, it's been a long time since I was in high school, so maybe it just doesn't matter as much anymore.
Calling one of my friends a slut would be like them calling me a godless fornicator. You'd just be like "uh, yeah. Thanks, I guess."

a person is a slut if they need to have sex to maintain there self esteem . if you take advantage you are on a par with the people that took away that sense of self in the first place

I do not like the word, period

It's a negative protrayal of a woman that likes sex, while still single.

Let's get out of that mentality.

Rockzilla damn nice quote..

I don't like to call people that - hell I dont recall ever having to.

but those who do IMO are those without much self-esteem

self-esteem is a pretty big key here

From the definitions above, a slut is a girl who acts like a 16-year-old boy who's told he can have sex anytime he wants. The boy would be considered lucky, the girl is considered trash. Typical.

I once picked up one of those thick women's studies/sociology tomes because I wanted to figure out why a fair number of "nice" women I've known treated other women really badly. Anyhow, their studies showed among other things that the slut label was put on teenager girls by -- other teenage girls. Guys would go along with calling somebody a slut once it got started, but it was almost always the girls who started it. Usually it was somebody whose breasts were a little too large or who dressed a little too provocatively and either wasn't in an "in" group or had offended somebody else who was. A lot of times the "slut" wasn't especially sexually active. It's just a way girls have of getting at somebody who appears a little too sexual (and might be getting more male attention than the other girls like) and is not "one of them."

My conclusion: men can be brutal, but women can be cruel.

Jennifer Lopez

Women / Men who cheat on their boyfriend / girlfriend are sluts.

from reading other responses, i think a slut is more like a person that does whatever it takes to get what they want, by sleepin with whoever they have to.

its like a person that uses sex as currency to buy their way thru life.

To me, a slut is a man or a woman who sleeps with people they don't respect.

That's it, I guess.

Multiple partners, you have determined that while you could get the sex you couldn't ever trust the person.

A slut will fuck anything that walks...

Bing

No, I would not.

i have two deffinitions

Slut=promiscous, not carring about getting pregnant/getting somone pregnant, or STDs, or using people not carring about feelings just to get some.

Slut= Insult, see def 1. even if it isnt true, thats why its supposed to be an insult

Well, here's my age showing again. I've never heard of a straight guy being called a "slut."

We used to call straight guys who fit all the above definitions "jocks."

Rockzilla nailed it, what else needs to be said.

Slut- (n.) SEE: Ex-girlfriend.

Someone who doesn't even make you work for sex. Who just fucks someone because they are good looking, regardless. Someone who gets a little drunk and lets the cock in.

to me, a slut is someone who doesn't CARE who they sleep with.

You can sleep with a lot of people and not be a slut, so long as you had a genuine emotional connection with them. If you sleep with a lot of people for the sake of sleeping with a lot of people then you have a one way ticket to slutdom

I thought a slit was a tiny cracked opening in something or a dreogatory term for a woman's pudenda. What in the hell are you all talking about.
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D'oh, damn reading without comprehending. My Bad.

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Rockzilla said a slut is someone who uses sex as a substitute for self-esteem.
What about this? Say a man and a woman are both virgins when the marry and are monogamous throughout 30 years of marriage. The wife is about to finish law school and is interviewing for a position at a prestigous law firm. The night before the interview, her husband wants to bolster her self-esteem. He prepares and feeds her favorite meal to her. He then gives her a very sensuous bath lit only by 2 dozen candles. He follows this by giving her a deep, intimate massage. He takes her to the bed they've shared for all those years and is sexually generous for 3 hours.
This, of course, does wonders for her self-esteem. Though she's in her 50's, she feels young and dynamic due to the sex she had. Does this make her a slut?

Perhaps monogamy and faitfhful concern for your lover are important. I cannot imagine ever calling anyone a slut though.

The term slut is typically only used in reference to women, a man who has all the sex he wants for the reason of having sex (or even as a substitute for self-esteem) is a 'player' or a 'stud.' A lot of girls I know who are, for lack of a better term, sluts, don't understand this.

The truth is, the reason this so-called double-standard exists, is because it's a lot easier for a woman to get action than a man. That's really what it all comes down to.

Then again, does it really matter? Personally, I will never be a 'player' simply because I have no desire to be. That doesn't mean that I have a right to describe someone with the term slut just because they have a great deal of sex or emotional issues.

In my opinion, a girl is a slut if she sleeps with guys that are not her serious boyfriend.

a slut is someone who uses sex like a drug

Engaging in frequent sex with multiple partners(at different times). The term is not meant to be derogatory at all.

a girl who will do anything sexual that I ask...without question.

There's a difference between the situation you mentioned and what I had intended, that is, someone who bases their self-worth solely on how many partners they've had. In your situation, the husband is going out of his way to do something special for his wife out of love, he's trying to make her feel good about herself. There's a huge difference between love and sex.

"Slut" is a stupid term because people only use it for women. I think it's as bad as any racial slur, and I find myself discrediting and losing respect for people who use those terms accordingly.

Anyone that scores a lot of guys excluding me.