Strap on Fun - Female/Male
 

Hi,
I'm a very curious Western Australian, who has recently found a
side of my sexuality I've never seen before.
I've been becoming aroused by Strap on sex Female to Male.
And i really wanted to give it a try, but finding a partner to try this out with
is harder then finding a needle in a hay stack, if anyone knows anyone or any site that can help me out with this i would be very much thankful.

Soooo.... your first post is to either find someone to peg you or be referred to some place where you can find someone to peg you? I've got no issues with strap-on sex (your bedroom activities, your definition of fun), but don't you think it's just a touch rude to not even bother to introduce yourself first? I mean, all we know is your gender, roughly where you are and that you want a woman to put things in your butt. I'm certainly not going to be in a rush to introduce you to my Western Australian female friends.

Sorry
 

I am very sorry, i do apologize for my lack of respect.
I am very new here and did not really, know what to do, i should have introduced myself.
It was very stupid of me to have put that post up without explaining first, who I am, Where I come from, Or what i do/ where i live.

I'm sorry for offending you in anyway. I did not mean to offend.

Apology accepted. Thanks.

So where do we go from here? Are you just waiting for me to give you names or something, or are you going to come back and introduce yourself around?

It sounds horrific to me personally, but to each their own...

I think there is a serious question here.

If you have a specific taste for some sexual practice that isnt exactly mainstream, how exactly do you find someone who will be into it? (In real life, not on some pornography inspired fake dating site, or chat room)

If you are just really into girls with big tits, its easy to tell the kind of girls you should ask out.

If you are really into girls who would be up for rogering you from behind... I dont know... how can you identify someone who's up for that??

Wow, Strange Famous, you may save this thread yet! I was going to give it a few days to see if Kelvin is back, then quietly close it.

This really isn't my area of expertise, but I think that this just falls under the "generally kinky" catagory. You just need to find someone that you connect with first, IMO. It's not like you can walk into most bars and say "hi, I'd like to tie you up and fuck you hard". You kinda have to work up to that.

Damn. No wonder I was single for so long.

Since we are on the subject of how to ask awkward questions, I have one for those of you who are homosexual males. My personal sample of homosexual male friends aren't close enough to me to ask such an intimate question.

So, I've heard that in homosexual male relationships, one person is traditionally the pitcher and the other is the catcher. Let's go with Top and Bottom. So, you break up and you are out on the prowl. What if you meet the next love of your life and they are also a Top or also a Bottom? How does that work? Suppose you are both Tops, clearly that is by some preference. Does one switch to Bottom or do you find someone else more compatible with you? I ask this because it seems somewhat related to the thread. If this seems a threadjack, I withdraw the post...

I would presume in a normal gay sex relation, the two partners take turns in it?

The gay guys I knew all had a preference when it came down to a good ol' fashioned yogurt throwing contests. They were either top or bottom in various degrees. This guy might be a strict top or the other guy could go either way. Kinda like eating pussy; some guys love it, some guys hate it and some guys will only do it if the favor is returned.

I asked the same question one night to a friend of mine and he told that if two tops got together, they wouldn't fuck. I guess in the long run, it depends on the couple.

If we are talking personalities, that's a whole different ball game.

Allright, but it isnt the same as this guys problem really.

All gay guys presumably like getting fucked or being the fucker... by definition the fact the like that defines them as gay. And there ARE forums that homosexuals can meet each other (ie gay clubs, public parks, etc)... and its just a question of finding out which part of the sex act the other is into. You probably can tell that do a degree from the persons demeaner. A more feminine male is likely to prefer being the "bottom", a more masculine male the "top"...

In terms of finding a woman who would be into taking a strap on dildo and rogering a man... I am not saying it doesnt exist, but I think its not something an average girl is going to like, and its not something you'd feel exactly comfortable raising with someone you werent very very close to... how do you identify someone who you can have a serious relation with, and at the same time will carry out a quite uncommon thing on you (and ideally get some kind of satisfaction herself)

I think all you can do is maybe try and find a girl who is very open minded about sex... at least she might might be willing to give it a try?

Personally the idea of having "open minded" conversations about sex with a girl is threatening, disturbing, and unnatural... but I guess you cannot be reticent and prudish if you have desires that are outside of what society defines as normal (ie - oral sex, normal sex, maybe having your girl dress as a policewoman for your birthday or whatever...)

Wow...the things you can learn here! I never knew anything about Top and Bottom and any preference....as to the original question.... you can find just about anything on Craigslist. Or, there are sites that cater to fetishes such as this. That would be the 1st stop I would think.

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To be honest, Keymaker that's the answer I was more after, not after exactly a person who likes it, just of sites or people who could help me find what I'm looking for, I was very rude in it being my first post on this site, i did/do apologize for that.

I am Kelvin, I'm from South Western Western Australia, and I'm very curious on the subject. I'm 21, play bass guitar, i play Basketball, AFL and am a Heterosexual male. That's about all i have to introduce myself, now it being so late, I have this feeling I'm going to get heckled even more.

You must have a different definition of "heckled" than I do.

Your opening post left the staff with 3 options: we could ban you, we could PM you to see if you'd ever come back and add more or what I ended doing. Honestly, I wasn't sure if you thought you'd find "that special someone" here or if you were setting us up for spam. As it stands, it's looks like this was the right call.

Hopefully you're seeing that we're not an overly judgmental lot.

There are a ton of sites out there that cater to various kinks and hooking up folks who share those kinks. I don't see any real reason to turn this into a list of links, but you probably want to look at local message boards for kinksters or maybe even see if there's a local B&D/S&M group. If nothing else, you'll find some like-minded folks to discuss things with.

And there are definitely some folks here that share your kink, but they're not as geographically convenient as the local folks might be.

You mean, like Patrick Fitzgerald and Gerald Fitzpatrick?

Lindy
(I tried, really. I fought it for an hour... I couldn't stop myself.):shakehead:

Whats that? Some sort of song? I dont get it.

I am just trying to be pratical in my judgment.

Obviously it is only possible to orgasm through your cock for a man. So the guy thats taking it wont have an orgasm in a sex act with two men. It just seemed out of fairness you would expect the men to take turns so they can both, you know, achieve the thing that was the purpose of the act.

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Like if you have have a heterosexual couple, its the same. I wouldnt expect a girl to just give me head all the time and nothing the other way... how would she could any satisfaction in this case?

Practical? Wear a badge stating clearly what you want.
Perhaps a cap, like on 30 Rock, saying "Roger Me".
Have a shirt made that graphically portrays the situation desired.

That isnt as crazy as it initially sounded to me

You might want to go to some kind of rock club, as a lot of people who like heavy metal are also into alternative lifestyles in general in my opinion.

Wear some kind of "Strap on Sally" merchandised shirt. You can always play it off like a joke if someone is saying "WTF is this" to you, and maybe it will attract a girl who might be up for it? You can even get shirts printed up fairly cheap from completely online stores if you send them a jpg, so you could get a shirt with a comic book style portrayal of a leather clad domintrix brandishing a strap on? It'd either warn some off if they thought it was odd or attract interest if they were into it.

I actually used to have a shirt which had "women are property" on it, and it used to get a lot of attention if I wore it to a nightclub... sure, some negative, but some people thought it was funny too!

There you go... the TFP can offer practical solutions to your questions.

Wow, you are even That Guy IRL. Bravo, ol' chap. Way to stay in character at all times.

It's the punchline from an old joke.
Q: Did you hear about the two Irish homosexuals who were just made for each other?
A: Patrick Fitzgerald and Gerald Fitzpatrick.
They could take turns because sexually... Patrick fits Gerald and Gerald fits Patrick.

Lindy
on the road again

I have a friend who actually use to fuck a guy with her stilettos. It sounds terrible and painful to me but to each their own.

Some people like 'weird' stuff. craigslist is your best bet. people post some incredibly weird fetish shit there.

If you're in a hurry you could go the direct route via personal classifieds, visiting clubs known for having sexually adventurous patrons, prostitutes, etc.

Another route would be to develop a relationship the normal way. You might have to take it slowly as you learn about her, you wouldn't want to scare her away by jumping the gun. If you find her to be sexually openminded, slowly introduce the idea of pegging. Exactly how to do that will depend on what you know about her. You'd be surprised by how many women aren't prudes about porn, and that would be one way to test her thoughts on pegging. Sex toy catalogues are another source (that's how I introduced my wife to the idea).

Another thought is she might be more interested in having a go at a your butt with a strap-on than you might expect. There are women who are curious about what it would be like to have a penis and be the 'picher' during sex. It helps that pegging has become a little more mainstream than it used to be.

Good luck in your search.