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Altavoz 10-05-2010 03:55 PM

Thank you gift for a loan
 
I recently started a new job as a teacher. Long story short, I have the opportunity to earn college credit and the school will reimburse me for the tuition, but I have to pay up front. I wanted to take advantage of the opportunity, but I hit a financial rough spot. Explaining this situation to a fellow teacher that I barely knew, he cut me a check on the spot for the fees and told me to pay him back whenever it was convenient. I was floored, because I wasn't asking him to loan me money, I was just venting.

Basically, I am paying him back this Friday and I would like to include an extra small gift as a thank you. It can't be too expensive (I'm still broke!) and I don't want it to be too personal, since we are both single and close in age and I don't want him to get the wrong impression. I've thought about maybe cooking something (cookies, brownies, etc) or taking him out for lunch on me during one of the teacher inservices, but I feel like those are both too personal. Anyone have any suggestions?

uncle phil 10-05-2010 03:59 PM

bottle of wine?

Altavoz 10-05-2010 04:02 PM

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Originally Posted by uncle phil (Post 2828497)
bottle of wine?

He's the agricultural tech teacher.. wine's not really his thing, haha.. Maybe a case of beer?

The_Jazz 10-05-2010 04:04 PM

brownies/cookies. everyone likes those.

Tully Mars 10-05-2010 04:20 PM

A thank-you note and a commitment to "pay it forward."

genuinegirly 10-05-2010 05:24 PM

You think cookies are too personal? I always thought they were something you randomly make for friends, which it sounds like this guy has become. There's definitely no sexual connotation behind cookies.

It's an Ag teacher? How about a new pair of gardening/work gloves?

amonkie 10-05-2010 05:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Tully Mars (Post 2828507)
A thank-you note and a commitment to "pay it forward."

When I was in a similar situation, this is what I did.

Craven Morehead 10-05-2010 06:18 PM

gift card - possibly his favorite restaurant

Hektore 10-05-2010 10:31 PM

The obvious: How about some interest on top of that loan payment?

Better: Something he needs for the classroom? New pointer or something.

Maybe cover one of his detention shifts?

Iliftrocks 10-12-2010 09:58 AM

Hell, to me, somebody paying me back is thanks enough. Just thank him and take him to Taco Bell or something affordable.

Daniel_ 10-12-2010 10:34 AM

So we've already said "no" to sex? :p

I like baked goods.

clavus 10-13-2010 10:32 AM

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Originally Posted by genuinegirly (Post 2828518)
You think cookies are too personal? I always thought they were something you randomly make for friends, which it sounds like this guy has become. There's definitely no sexual connotation behind cookies.

Just try not to make the cookies penis-shaped and you'll be fine.

Cynthetiq 10-13-2010 11:24 AM

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Originally Posted by Tully Mars (Post 2828507)
A thank-you note and a commitment to "pay it forward."

Quote:

Originally Posted by amonkie (Post 2828520)
When I was in a similar situation, this is what I did.

Same.

To this very day I still pay it forward as often as I can because of one individual who did something nice for me one day.

Tully Mars 10-14-2010 01:33 AM

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Originally Posted by Justin Kane (Post 2830570)
I don't think you should send a gift either; as someone said, he's just doing his job. What would be better, though, is 1) send him a card thanking him and telling him you'll send more customers, and 2) send a note to his boss, telling him what a great job he did; maybe it will be reflected one day in a pay increase, and at least look good on his record.

Did you read the OP? Both people are teachers. Who are the customers? The students?


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