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snowy 04-29-2010 12:07 PM

I'm down for that, mixedmedia and Baraka.

I'm from an immigrant family--I'm a first generation American on my father's side of the family. He immigrated here as a child with his family and grew up speaking mostly Dutch at home. My grandfather worked in the hotel industry and had already learned English back in the Netherlands at hotel school. My grandmother had a much more difficult time of it, and it wasn't until my father had a sympathetic teacher in early elementary school that my grandmother was able to receive some extra language instruction. The teacher took it upon herself to teach my dad and grandmother English. This is, of course, well before the development of English Language Learner programs. My dad was basically expected to sink or swim when it came to learning the language, and that is the prevailing attitude still when it comes to teaching adults how to speak English.

Learning a new language as an adult is difficult, certainly not as easy as it is when we are children. There are distinct sensitive periods for language development. Optimally, everyone would learn a foreign language before the age of 12 (when neuronal pruning really starts taking off). However, we live in the United States where people are seemingly afraid of foreign language, which strikes me as bizarre in an increasingly globalized world.

The point is, we need to offer adult English Language Learners appropriate support and help them to learn English. My grandfather had already learned English before he came here, and so it was easy for him to assimilate. He learned English during a time in his life where language learning was easy, and hotel school structured language lessons so that he not only learned English, but he was fluent in French and German as well, and had a working knowledge of Spanish and Italian. That isn't uncommon in Europe--almost all of my Dutch cousins speak 5 languages. But for my grandmother, who hadn't learned English and who initially didn't have support learning it, it was much more difficult, and a good teacher made all the difference in her ability to learn and master the language of her new country.

We shouldn't expect people to learn English if we're not offering them any help in learning it. I have the utmost sympathy for English Language Learners of all ages, given all the stories I've heard from my own family. This country was built on the backs of immigrants, and statements like the one in the OP do nothing but spit in the eye of all the immigrants who worked hard to make this country what it is, regardless of what language they spoke.

Grancey 04-29-2010 12:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jetée (Post 2782325)
It's just that his stance, along with his political ties with both his father, and siblings in the family, show something that is very akin to "be one of us, or don't be a part of this town (city, county, state) at all".

This comment is how I have always known this family to be. People I know that I have talked to about this situation don't support James at all. I would be really surprised if he got elected, but I don't know what the rest of the people in this state are thinking. I will let you know what happens. He did succeed in getting a lot of attention with this ad.

There is a very, very slight undercurrent of southern bashing going on in this thread, but that's ok. I knew the thread would probably take off in different directions . It's a good discussion. I don't take offense. I'm not even offended at being referred to as a "southern gentleman". Last time I checked I was definitely female.

Baraka_Guru 04-29-2010 12:14 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Grancey (Post 2782389)
I'm not even offended at being referred to as a "southern gentleman". Last time I checked I was definitely female.

I'm pretty sure mixedmedia was referring to Tim James.

uncle phil 04-29-2010 12:16 PM

like the old german gentleman said: "There is nothing more frightful than ignorance in action..."

Baraka_Guru 04-29-2010 12:19 PM

It's quite appalling overall. His platform isn't all that bad otherwise. It's just that he seems to want to stick it to the immigrants, gays, and pro-choicers, not to mention the non-religious.

Glory's Sun 04-29-2010 12:24 PM

http://a.deviantart.com/avatars/l/u/...acepalmplz.gif

DaveOrion 04-29-2010 12:31 PM

me twy to spel rite, sory. ain't got much book learnin. :)

Glory's Sun 04-29-2010 12:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DaveOrion (Post 2782403)
me twy to spel rite, sory. ain't got much book learnin. :)


umm...

ok.

mixedmedia 04-29-2010 01:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Baraka_Guru (Post 2782391)
I'm pretty sure mixedmedia was referring to Tim James.

That would be correct.
Sorry about that, Grancey. I know who you are. :)

Shadowex3 04-29-2010 06:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by snowy (Post 2782388)

We shouldn't expect people to learn English if we're not offering them any help in learning it. I have the utmost sympathy for English Language Learners of all ages, given all the stories I've heard from my own family. This country was built on the backs of immigrants, and statements like the one in the OP do nothing but spit in the eye of all the immigrants who worked hard to make this country what it is, regardless of what language they spoke.

I have the utmost respect for anyone genuinely TRYING to learn english and I'll go quite a bit out of my way to meet them half way on things they're having difficulty with, considering my family did it I'd be a tool to do otherwise.

My problem is that living in Florida I am constantly dealing with people who not only go out of their way to avoid english while working in jobs where they absolutely need it, but also who smugly wave another country's flag in my face while doing so. What race they are and which flag and language it is don't matter to me, it's that they're doing it to begin with that I have a problem with.

SecretMethod70 04-29-2010 06:35 PM

shadowex: Minus the language part, you've described behavior that's exhibited even by immigrant groups that have been here for some time. A number of my family members have or have had flag medallions on their cars. You know what flag I've never seen as one of those medallions? The American flag. The Italian flag, however, was on every single one of them. In one particular case where my uncle married a woman from Mexico, it was joined by the Mexican flag. For reference, my family came over about 100 years ago. These aren't even recent immigrants exhibiting this behaviour. Or you can go to certain communities in the Chicago area where you'll see a bunch of Polish flags, not American flags, and people who speak primarily polish. The bank Onodrim works at has signs in Polish to better serve those customers. Or, uh, certain areas of the south where you'll mainly see Confederate flags ;) It's all over.

Guess what: you live in a multicultural country. It's time to get over it.

DaveOrion 04-29-2010 06:49 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Grancey (Post 2782389)

There is a very, very slight undercurrent of southern bashing going on in this thread, but that's ok.

Quote:

Originally Posted by SecretMethod70
Or, uh, certain areas of the south where you'll mainly see Confederate flags ;)

Yea, they're just funnin. :)
Quote:

Originally Posted by mixedmedia
Just as it would be great if all natural born Americans would learn to actually speak, spell and write coherent sentences in English themselves. *pipe dream*

me twy to spel rite, sory. ain't got much book learnin.

Glory's Sun 04-29-2010 06:53 PM

Wow. Good job Dave. Way to take things out of context.

DaveOrion 04-29-2010 07:00 PM

Tried to edit that mess some what, I was only joking just as I was about using The_Dunedan's quote as a sig.

Lighten Up Dude

Dusk 04-29-2010 10:02 PM

You think that's embarassing? I have to get my postcount up to 15 tonight so I can finally post images in my thread tonight about recreational drugs!

DaveOrion 04-29-2010 10:53 PM

Does your thread involve http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/general...divinorum.html ?

Dusk 04-30-2010 12:02 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DaveOrion (Post 2782546)
Does your thread involve Salvia Divinorum?

No, cannabis. Is it anything like Salvia?

I'm curious about how drugs work - I was never satisfied with the explanations I received in my earlier days. Not a big fan of being some kind of fanboy for a plant, but I'm earnestly interested in learning about them considering I'll be applying to study chemistry/biology @ University in the very near-term. I don't want to make an overly clinical approach to the subject as a person who has never actually experienced any of the experiences he sets out to document and learn about, hence the entire curiosity thing. I'm also not interested in becoming dependent. However, I am interested in their potential applications.

Part of me already knows the answer to all of this, if you know what I mean. Anyway - just say no to thread-jacking.

Glory's Sun 04-30-2010 04:08 AM

I hear a train.

mixedmedia 04-30-2010 05:32 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Shadowex3 (Post 2782504)
I have the utmost respect for anyone genuinely TRYING to learn english and I'll go quite a bit out of my way to meet them half way on things they're having difficulty with, considering my family did it I'd be a tool to do otherwise.

My problem is that living in Florida I am constantly dealing with people who not only go out of their way to avoid english while working in jobs where they absolutely need it, but also who smugly wave another country's flag in my face while doing so. What race they are and which flag and language it is don't matter to me, it's that they're doing it to begin with that I have a problem with.

It seems apparent that it is all a matter of perception. I live in Florida, as well. 20+ years in the Orlando area and close to a year now in SW FL. Meaning that I have encountered most likely tens of thousands of immigrants in my life. I can't ever remember a time when their inability to speak my language or the display of their home flag on their car or clothing felt like a personal affront.

WinchesterAA 04-30-2010 07:48 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SecretMethod70 (Post 2782507)
Guess what: you live in a multicultural country. It's time to get over it.

'


That is absolutely right. These things have happened, now it is time to deal with it..

Best thing to do is be aware of what you're up against.


snowy 04-30-2010 07:57 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SecretMethod70 (Post 2782507)
shadowex: Minus the language part, you've described behavior that's exhibited even by immigrant groups that have been here for some time. A number of my family members have or have had flag medallions on their cars. You know what flag I've never seen as one of those medallions? The American flag. The Italian flag, however, was on every single one of them. In one particular case where my uncle married a woman from Mexico, it was joined by the Mexican flag. For reference, my family came over about 100 years ago. These aren't even recent immigrants exhibiting this behaviour. Or you can go to certain communities in the Chicago area where you'll see a bunch of Polish flags, not American flags, and people who speak primarily polish. The bank Onodrim works at has signs in Polish to better serve those customers. Or, uh, certain areas of the south where you'll mainly see Confederate flags ;) It's all over.

Guess what: you live in a multicultural country. It's time to get over it.

Yeah, we have a Dutch flag that we hang, and I've been meaning to order my Oranje jersey before the World Cup starts. ;)

Shadowex3 04-30-2010 02:17 PM

I've got an Israeli and Finnish flag in my room right now, and that's no more what I was talking about than what you describe. Don't be disingenuous, it doesn't suit you.

Plan9 04-30-2010 02:39 PM

This thread makes me think of this one quote:

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kenny Powers
Sure, I've been called a xenophobe, but the truth is, I'm not. I honestly just feel that America is the best country and the other countries aren't as good. That used to be called patriotism.

I was under the impression that, based on the get-yer-citizenship process, changing your allegiance from your former country and adopting the United States as your new home is part of being a good citizen in the United States.

Some people don't like that homework attached to that. And some people can't even change allegiance.

Seems that we, of the world, are citizens on paper, not in action.

...

Also:

It's really sad the only mention of "patriotism" today is that present when crazy white guys in camo give doomsday speeches.

How did patriot become synonymous with extremist nutjob?

/rambling

mixedmedia 04-30-2010 02:57 PM

How is someone hanging a Puerto Rican flag on their rear view mirror, for instance, evidence that they don't have an allegiance to this country?

Patriotism is a word that people are free to interpret in their own way. Including Kenny Powers whoever the hell he is.

Plan9 04-30-2010 03:11 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by mixedmedia (Post 2782816)
How is someone hanging a Puerto Rican flag on their rear view mirror, for instance, evidence that they don't have an allegiance to this country?

Are you being serious? Okay, I'll assume you are: It isn't. That wasn't my point. I was just rambling about mindset.

mixedmedia 04-30-2010 03:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Plan9 (Post 2782823)
Are you being serious? Okay, I'll assume you are: It isn't. That wasn't my point. I was just rambling about mindset.

oh, ok. nevermind. :p

Plan9 04-30-2010 03:14 PM

Yeah, I mean... there are plenty of useless dipshits that have American Flag stickers on their bumpers.

In some parts of the country? That's how you pick 'em out.

...

Economic segregation has really destroyed civic activity.

DaveOrion 04-30-2010 03:34 PM

How might one feel if a muslim was seen driving a VW bus with the Iranian flag covering the side?

http://i129.photobucket.com/albums/p.../iran_flag.jpg

SecretMethod70 04-30-2010 03:42 PM

Uh, just about the same as I'd feel for any other flag. I'm sure your scenario could be found in LA, the Iranian expat capital of the world. Oddly, LA doesn't have a serious terrorism problem. Go figure.

uncle phil 04-30-2010 03:43 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Plan9 (Post 2782807)
This thread makes me think of this one quote:



I was under the impression that, based on the get-yer-citizenship process, changing your allegiance from your former country and adopting the United States as your new home is part of being a good citizen in the United States.

Some people don't like that homework attached to that. And some people can't even change allegiance.

Seems that we, of the world, are citizens on paper, not in action.

...

Also:

It's really sad the only mention of "patriotism" today is that present when crazy white guys in camo give doomsday speeches.

How did patriot become synonymous with extremist nutjob?

/rambling

we really need to have a few drinks together, buddy...

Plan9 04-30-2010 03:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SecretMethod70 (Post 2782837)
Uh, just about the same as I'd feel for any other flag. I'm sure your scenario could be found in LA, the Iranian expat capital of the world. Oddly, LA doesn't have a serious terrorism problem. Go figure.

Turns out the United States doesn't have a serious terrorism problem.

DaveOrion 04-30-2010 03:57 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Plan9 (Post 2782842)
Turns out the United States doesn't have a serious terrorism problem.

Would you agree with the opinions expressed here?

dlish 04-30-2010 04:15 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SecretMethod70 (Post 2782837)
Uh, just about the same as I'd feel for any other flag. I'm sure your scenario could be found in LA, the Iranian expat capital of the world. Oddly, LA doesn't have a serious terrorism problem. Go figure.

that's because most of the people outside of iran have left because they do not support the current government. the vast majority are quite liberal in their political and religious views. I see that a lot here too.

daveorion - im glad to see that you think that muslims and iranians are synonymous enough that you think all muslims support iran and its looney ideas. FYI Iranians make about possibly 5% of the worlds muslim population.

And for the record i wouldnt be caught dead with an iranian flag.

DaveOrion 04-30-2010 04:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dlish (Post 2782853)

daveorion - im glad to see that you think that muslims and iranians are synonymous enough that you think all muslims support iran and its looney ideas. FYI Iranians make about possibly 5% of the worlds muslim population.

dlish: I have no idea how you came to such a conclusion based on my post. I simply asked how "anyone" would feel if they saw this. My own opinion is conspicuously absent.

SecretMethod70 04-30-2010 04:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dlish (Post 2782853)
that's because most of the people outside of iran have left because they do not support the current government. the vast majority are quite liberal in their political and religious views. I see that a lot here too.

That's part of my point, though I'm not sure if you were disagreeing with me.

Flags mean a lot of different things to a lot of different people. The Iranian flag is not limited to displays of support for Ayatollah Khamenei and Mahmoud Ahmadinejad.

dippin 04-30-2010 04:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Shadowex3 (Post 2782795)
I've got an Israeli and Finnish flag in my room right now, and that's no more what I was talking about than what you describe. Don't be disingenuous, it doesn't suit you.

So why don't you actually spell out what you are talking about, and tell which flags you don't want to see, or what being "waved in your face" means?

There is some serious beating around the bush and baiting going on in this thread (and this isn't aimed solely at you). Why don't we actually say what we want to say?

dlish 04-30-2010 04:49 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DaveOrion (Post 2782854)
dlish: I have no idea how you came to such a conclusion based on my post. I simply asked how "anyone" would feel if they saw this. My own opinion is conspicuously absent.

you're right. i misread your post. i should stop reading TFP at 4am.


smeth, not disagreeing with you at all.

however, the current iranian flag represents the views of the iranian regime since the 1979 revolution, but not necessarily the views of ahmadinejad.

more can be read here about the history of the iranian flag. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Flag_of_Iran

i personally had an australian and a lebanese flag in my office.

mixedmedia 04-30-2010 05:29 PM

we're getting way off track here now.

DaveOrion 04-30-2010 05:30 PM

I think we should return to the recreational drug discussion.

mixedmedia 04-30-2010 05:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Plan9 (Post 2782823)
Are you being serious? Okay, I'll assume you are: It isn't. That wasn't my point. I was just rambling about mindset.

Just for the record, you must have been editing your post when I replied to you. I hate it when you do that.


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