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Old 07-05-2003, 05:58 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Do you watch or not? (morality ?)

so........ you have the young man's biggest wish. a way to spy on your dream girl(s)/guy(s).

you know that if they knew they would be emotionally hurt (why? hell if i know. i'm bored and making a thread). you also know they will not find out.


what do you do?


i'd want to look..... badly. but i would not.
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Old 07-05-2003, 06:11 PM   #2 (permalink)
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I'd probably look - but be ashamed.
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Old 07-05-2003, 06:15 PM   #3 (permalink)
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the girl(s) i'd really want to see are friends, and i would really want to look, but i'd choose not to because they are friends.

but i'd look at other girls
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Old 07-05-2003, 06:15 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Yes I would, and I am sorry if they were upset about it.
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Old 07-05-2003, 06:23 PM   #5 (permalink)
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I'd look, then deny it vigorously
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Old 07-05-2003, 06:30 PM   #6 (permalink)
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I always think I would choose TO do something like this, but I usually end up choosing NOT to do it. So I guess deep down, I got some pretty good morals on me. And one HELLUVA guilty conscience.
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Old 07-05-2003, 07:01 PM   #7 (permalink)
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I wouldn't look. I mean if I'd really want to see something, I'd just ask. :-)

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Old 07-05-2003, 07:11 PM   #8 (permalink)
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Old 07-05-2003, 07:41 PM   #9 (permalink)
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it's a free world....hell yeah i'm gonna look.

no harm,no foul
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Old 07-05-2003, 07:43 PM   #10 (permalink)
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Voyeurism isn't my thing, so I won't be looking.
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Old 07-05-2003, 07:54 PM   #11 (permalink)
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As pathetic as it sounds, i probably wouldn't.

post post : after thinking for some bit..

.. yeah, i'd look.. who wouldn't? Bunch of liars.

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Old 07-05-2003, 07:55 PM   #12 (permalink)
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I would look but thats because my current dream girls would be people from highschool who I never plan on seeing again.
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Old 07-05-2003, 08:15 PM   #13 (permalink)
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Not only would I look, but I would try to find a way to capture it photographically, either videotape or stills.
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Old 07-05-2003, 08:22 PM   #14 (permalink)
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speak for yourself halx.

i'm no laamer. just a loser
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Old 07-05-2003, 08:58 PM   #15 (permalink)
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curiousity is my nature.
sure, I'd look.
I'm a nosy SOB.
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Old 07-05-2003, 09:17 PM   #16 (permalink)
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Not only would I look, but I would try to find a way to capture it photographically, either videotape or stills.
Something like that ...
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Old 07-05-2003, 09:45 PM   #17 (permalink)
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Not only would I look, but I would try to find a way to capture it photographically, either videotape or stills.
Something like that ...
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Old 07-05-2003, 10:04 PM   #18 (permalink)
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I may look... but i would feel shitty.
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Old 07-05-2003, 10:21 PM   #19 (permalink)
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I would look and love it. Tape it and call it the REAL BIG BROTHER.
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Old 07-05-2003, 11:07 PM   #20 (permalink)
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If I caught a quick peek, no problem. This question sounds more like would you spy on someone. I certianly would not.
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Old 07-05-2003, 11:20 PM   #21 (permalink)
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I posed the question for a few reasons. One because I’ve been trying to help a shy friend open up.

I was bored and wanted a new thread.

Also I like little pschye questions big and small. I love social experiments; this being a tiny, but interesting one.

You have the act of spying, a ‘neccesary evil’ at times and mostly morally wrong thing to do.

You are told up front that this action would cause harm, but they would never know. So, is it okay to violate their trust if they never knew?

Its how I see it. I could be wrong.
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Old 07-05-2003, 11:29 PM   #22 (permalink)
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dignity and embarrassment are both parts of shame, and lacking any form of self-worth, how can I be ashamed? Hell yea I'd look. consequence free environment. sinners place to sin is what it sounds like to me.
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Old 07-06-2003, 06:06 AM   #23 (permalink)
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Old 07-06-2003, 07:15 AM   #24 (permalink)
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wouldnt look if she was a close friend, otherwise, hell yes!
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Old 07-06-2003, 07:50 AM   #25 (permalink)
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I'd look, then deny it vigorously

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I would look but thats because my current dream girls would be people from highschool who I never plan on seeing again.

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Not only would I look, but I would try to find a way to capture it photographically, either videotape or stills.


Damn, everything I wanted to say has already been said.
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Old 07-06-2003, 08:09 AM   #26 (permalink)
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You have the act of spying, a ‘neccesary evil’ at times and mostly morally wrong thing to do.
I can see spying as being neccesary, but evil? morally wrong? I don't think so. When gathering intelligence the question of good or evil mostly depends on what's going to be done with the information, in other words, intent.

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You are told up front that this action would cause harm, but they would never know.
We were told up front that they would never find out. How can it cause harm? The emotional hurt only happens if they find out which you stated would not happen.

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So, is it okay to violate their trust if they never knew?
If you're spying, you're not violating a trust. They didn't trust you in the first place, that's why you're spying.
If, for example, they posed for pics and asked you not to show anyone, showing them would be a violation of trust.
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Old 07-06-2003, 09:44 AM   #27 (permalink)
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I can see spying as being neccesary, but evil? morally wrong? I don't think so. When gathering intelligence the question of good or evil mostly depends on what's going to be done with the information, in other words, intent.


spying is deception, which is, to me, a bad thing. that's all.

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We were told up front that they would never find out. How can it cause harm? The emotional hurt only happens if they find out which you stated would not happen.
think of it as cheating on a SO. yes, you are good to go evidence wise. its more of a simple question of right and wrong. if they found out they would be hurt.

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If you're spying, you're not violating a trust. They didn't trust you in the first place, that's why you're spying.
If, for example, they posed for pics and asked you not to show anyone, showing them would be a violation of trust.
depends on how you spy if you're in an inner circle gathering info, then you are violating the trust of those who are also in it.

anyhow. i enjoyed it.
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Old 07-06-2003, 12:10 PM   #28 (permalink)
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I'd look, and be sure that they didn't know I was.
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Old 07-06-2003, 12:47 PM   #29 (permalink)
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I'd look. I'd look a lot.

The girls don't find out, so nowbody gets hurt...except for maybe my exhausted, badly-chafed member.
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Old 07-06-2003, 02:55 PM   #30 (permalink)
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I'd look. I'd look a lot.

The girls don't find out, so nowbody gets hurt...except for maybe my exhausted, badly-chafed member.
That's basically everything I'm thinking. I'm not messing up their life, and though they might feel about it, even if they DID find out, it's something they'd get over. I've had stalkers before in HS, and it kind of shook me up when I realized it, but I got over it. This is the same kind of thing.
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Old 07-06-2003, 03:01 PM   #31 (permalink)
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Old 07-06-2003, 03:06 PM   #32 (permalink)
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I'd feel complimented if someone thought I was intresting enough to watch all the time then again I also have low self esteem.
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Old 07-06-2003, 03:16 PM   #33 (permalink)
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I don't think I'd look because I wouldn't want to hurt my friend but the curiousity would surely be there.
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Old 07-06-2003, 03:24 PM   #34 (permalink)
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I'd feel complimented if someone thought I was intresting enough to watch all the time then again I also have low self esteem.
That'd freak me out. I dunno how anyone could subject themselves to a reality tv show.
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Old 07-06-2003, 05:42 PM   #35 (permalink)
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I'd look and probably videotape.... I know, I need help.
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Old 07-06-2003, 06:01 PM   #36 (permalink)
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I'd look at my dream women, the nieghbor woman, pretty much anyone I hd the opportunity to. Like many others, I'd probably also tape it, just to prove to myself I really saw what I saw.
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Old 07-06-2003, 06:12 PM   #37 (permalink)
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iŽd watch - and iŽd love it.
since no one will ever know - and i sure can keep a secret - then iŽd definitely watch.
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Old 07-06-2003, 06:53 PM   #38 (permalink)
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I'd definatly feel bad if i did look. Depends on which girl it is, but in most cases yes.
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Old 07-07-2003, 01:12 AM   #39 (permalink)
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I wouldn't look if it was my dream girl. Even if she'd never find out. I'd want to see because she wants to show me.

If it's just random hot chicks I don't know then I'm there. Total perv mode. No feelings since I don't know them. I know they are someone's SO, sister, daughter, etc. But since they'll never find out I'm going to look.
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Old 07-07-2003, 01:20 AM   #40 (permalink)
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why not? a free peep show is a free peep show.
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