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genuinegirly 07-28-2009 12:06 PM

What is a Decent Person?
 
Princeton's definition of decency:
Quote:

the quality of being polite and respectable
When a wife is faced with her husband's arrest, she makes a statement that they are decent people. Reading this article made me wonder about people's definition of decency. It seems like such a common word - yet I would not have thought to use it in the context that this woman chooses.
So I wonder...
What does decency mean to you?
How do you use the word decent?

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I use decent with the following phrases:

"I'm decent at spelling."
"I'm a decent vocalist."
When I say something like these I mean, "I can hack it if you need me to do something with these skills, but if you look around you will find someone more qualified."

Glory's Sun 07-28-2009 12:08 PM

decent means a little bit good.. a little bit bad.

this is why people don't use decent when referring to me very often..

cuz I'm FUCKING AWESOME.

Zeraph 07-28-2009 12:10 PM

OP: Same thing here really. It means not bad but not great. Decent equallying respectable is an older usage I mostly see in older books.

LordEden 07-28-2009 12:27 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by genuinegirly (Post 2677713)
When a wife is faced with her husband's arrest, she makes a statement that they are decent people.

I think it is all about context. When I hear the word decent (in the context of the above quote), I hear "I am about to state the correct opinion." Most people who use the word in that context, you could take it out and replace it with American and it would mean the same thing. I am right.

"I'm a decent person." = "I am right, you are not."

Same thing with God-fearing citizen. Tax paying citizen. All the same context.

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guccilvr has it right. Half bad, half good.

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I use the word decent about myself because I can't see past my own character flaws.

Punk.of.Ages 07-28-2009 01:50 PM

I only use the word decent when I'm stating something as on the borderline of good and bad, no matter the context.
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On a side note, it's one word I tend to trendily abbreviate. It annoys me...

Them:"Did you like that band?"

Me:"They were dece..."

Them:"Did you just say dece?!"

Me:"Fuck you."

CinnamonGirl 07-28-2009 02:14 PM

When someone says they're "decent people," I take it to mean "good people." There's a country song that I kinda like (well, I like the idea of it, not so much the actual song) about how good people will be there for you when you're drunk, or sick, or down on your luck, but aren't necessarily what society sees as "good." I tend to follow that line of thought.

As for "decent," I use that completely differently. I don't think I've ever used it to describe a person. Maybe a book, or a movie, or a show. If it was decent, it was all right-- not spectacular, but pretty good.

My parents use "decent" as in "clothed," or "able to appear in public." Example: Mom knocks on the bedroom door and asks if I'm decent. If I'm not naked, I say yes. If I'm going out and she thinks I'm "indecent," it probably has something to do with a short skirt and fishnets.

Glory's Sun 07-28-2009 02:15 PM

all I know is more women should be decent enough to wear fishnets :p

Bear Cub 07-28-2009 02:58 PM

The antonym of Bear Cub.

snowy 07-28-2009 03:03 PM

I love the Oxford English Dictionary:

Quote:

1. a. Becoming, suitable, appropriate, or proper to the circumstances or special requirements of the case; seemly, fitting. Obs. or arch.

b. Appropriate with regard to rank or dignity.

2. Of such appearance and proportions as suit the requirements of good taste; comely, handsome.

3. a. In accordance with or satisfying the general standard of propriety or good taste, in conduct, speech, or action; esp. conformable to or satisfying the recognized standard of modesty or delicacy; free from obscenity.

b. of persons. spec. in mod. colloq. use (see quot. 1949).

4. a. Satisfying (in character, mode of living, behaviour, manners, etc.) the standard of one's position or circumstances; respectable.

b. of appearance, dress, etc.

5. a. Satisfying a fair standard; fair, tolerable, passable, ‘respectable’; good enough in its way.
Distinct examples of this sense are late; within brackets are given some earlier quots. which may belong to it.

b. Of a person: kind, accommodating, pleasant. colloq.

6. quasi-adv. Decently.

7. Comb., as decent-lived, -looking.
I bolded the two definitions of "decent" discussed in this thread. Clearly, it has a lot of different meanings depending on the context, and what it means to me depends on that context.

Baraka_Guru 07-28-2009 05:54 PM

I resort to the colloquial meaning: not bad, but not great.

"What did you think of the movie?"
"It was decent.... you know.... I liked it...." *subtle shrug, slight head nod*

"How was the salmon mousse?"
"It was decent.... you know.... I enjoyed it...." *subtle shrug, slight head nod*

"Well, what do you think of him?"
"He's decent.... you know.... he's all right." *subtle shrug, slight head nod*


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