06-11-2009, 08:05 PM | #41 (permalink) | |
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Being single. Anyone ever get the urge to just seduce everything with two legs and a nice body (preferably of the opposite sex )? |
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06-11-2009, 08:19 PM | #42 (permalink) |
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Fair enough. My point is this:I have trust issues and I'm a complete pussy when it comes to women, and I cover it up by lashing out and inflicting (emotional) pain on them before they do it to me. That being said, LET'S GET WASTED!
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06-11-2009, 09:16 PM | #44 (permalink) |
We work alone
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Single as of 2 hours ago.
3 years, 4 months. I feel like shit.
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06-11-2009, 09:23 PM | #45 (permalink) | |
part of the problem
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for now, enjoy the pain, use it wisely.
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06-11-2009, 09:29 PM | #47 (permalink) | |
change is hard.
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I'd also treat you to a tasty beverage if I could but I recommend the following: call a buddy, take a friday off work, and go camping for the weekend. In the woods, not some camp site. Go where you need to do everything for yourself. Bring a couple books, a hammer/nails, water/food, whatever, and build a camp. In essence it's kind of like building a new life for yourself. It worked wonders for me.
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06-11-2009, 10:29 PM | #48 (permalink) |
She's Actual Size
Location: Central Republic of Where-in-the-Hell
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Single, yes. Available, not so much.
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06-12-2009, 02:24 AM | #50 (permalink) |
Leaning against the -Sun-
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I have been mostly single for a few years now, and though I miss the companionship, I am fiercely independent and like things my own way. I'm not sure I will ever be able to be in a long-term committed relationship again. I want to have kids some day. That is my only hesitation. My last long-term stint ended badly and sometimes I still feel the bitterness even though I'd never take him back. Well, it doesn't help that he married the rebound girl. But I'm pretty sure I still got the better deal.
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06-12-2009, 04:01 AM | #51 (permalink) | ||
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*eyes squeeb's pants*
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06-12-2009, 10:55 AM | #52 (permalink) |
part of the problem
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so, after reading this thread, i've been thinking about all my failed attempts at meeting women, and i've come to the realization that i will live the rest of my life single, and die single. this blows like the cold, harsh north wind, but i've accepted it, and i have alcohol and porn to ease the pain.
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06-12-2009, 11:33 AM | #53 (permalink) |
She's Actual Size
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Well, alcohol and porn won't cheat on you. They also won't act like an idiot in front of your mother, whine when you want to hang out with your friends, or get mad when you stay out late.
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06-12-2009, 11:43 AM | #54 (permalink) |
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Well, CinnamonGirl ...
"Well, alcohol and porn won't cheat on you." -Porn constantly has gangbangs and alcohol constantly tells you the wrong things, wouldn't that be cheating? Haven't you ever seen this scenario ?? "They also won't act like an idiot in front of your mother" - But how will your mom react, when she sees naughty housewives 4?? "whine when you want to hang out with your friends, or get mad when you stay out late." - tell it to these folks ... Can anyone tell I'm having fun?? |
06-12-2009, 11:53 AM | #55 (permalink) |
She's Actual Size
Location: Central Republic of Where-in-the-Hell
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I'm totally sticking my tongue out at you right now, xerx
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06-12-2009, 01:47 PM | #57 (permalink) | |
I Confess a Shiver
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I'm more of a Misfits / Black Flag / Op Ivy kinda guy. ... Finding girls that appreciate punk music? Nearly impossible, I say. Seems to me that most of the ones that do like it don't have a future. I have yet to find a girl that actually owns a Black Flag CD. ... Perhaps my musical taste keeps me single. That and being 90% asshole. |
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06-12-2009, 02:52 PM | #58 (permalink) |
Insane
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God's gotta put his dick somewhere when he bends you over the bed.
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06-12-2009, 03:09 PM | #59 (permalink) | |
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06-12-2009, 03:24 PM | #60 (permalink) |
Living in a Warmer Insanity
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I'm single. I see no reason to be bitter about it. Right now that's the way I prefer it. Some day that may change, right now though I'm happy to get up each day and decide what I want to do or what to (or not to) spend money on. That's not saying if the right woman appeared in my life tomorrow I'd pass. But she'd have to be a damn near prefect match.
I do wish several of my friends would stop with the "Have you met _________? She's really nice and really single." Why do other people assume you need an SO if you're single? Why do they feel it's their mission in life to find you someone? I will never understand people who do this.
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06-15-2009, 04:28 PM | #61 (permalink) |
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I am single. The only thing I miss about being with someone is what happens between 10pm-6am. Everyone loves sex, and I am a sucker for sleeping and cuddling with someone. Sometimes I think about how I should get married and start a family. Then I go to walmart and get to hear all the kids scream and cry. I get so much more done and I can do what I want. I love it being single.
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06-15-2009, 04:30 PM | #62 (permalink) | |
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Single's the way to be.
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06-15-2009, 09:09 PM | #64 (permalink) |
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Been single for six months now. I am lonely and have no skills when it comes to meeting women. I have drank more alcohol in the past 6 months than the previous 10 years combined.
Oddly, the only things I miss is the sex (though rare it was anyway), my dog, and the extra income. I have lost 35 pounds, stopped smoking, been paying down my (our) debt, look better than I ever have, yet have zero confidence in myself. Fuck my life |
06-15-2009, 09:58 PM | #65 (permalink) |
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Location: San Francisco
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Cheer up guys, I have a girlfriend but I've been alone for most of the last 3 days because she can't stand being around me.
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06-15-2009, 10:18 PM | #67 (permalink) |
She's Actual Size
Location: Central Republic of Where-in-the-Hell
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Then why is she your girlfriend? Am I missing something here?
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06-15-2009, 10:29 PM | #68 (permalink) |
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Because it isn't true, I went out of my way to bring him stuff at work today. I was holding him and having a good evening last night and tonight until just recently. Then we had a bit of an argument and I left to blow off some steam. It's never good to write when angry. I should stop. /threadjack
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06-15-2009, 10:55 PM | #69 (permalink) |
Forming
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Uh oh...
Once again I'll say: I love being single!
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06-16-2009, 01:02 PM | #72 (permalink) |
She's Actual Size
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Cheers to that!
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06-16-2009, 01:28 PM | #74 (permalink) | |
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Single since 2005ish. Don't enjoy it at all, wish I was dating someone, but the gods have other ideas for me. That and I have huge self-esteem issues. I think I am the sexiest man on the planet, but the mirror never lies. Went two years without getting laid and then partied, drank, slipped and fell into the vagoo of my best friend's ex. Fun while it lasted and then shit blew-up. Brodie: "That was the biggest load of crap I've ever heard. I mean, look at you. You're the kind of guy who would beg for sex. And I should know, we can smell our own." This thread made me think of my favorite mallrats quote. No, I'm not making fun of anyone, I can smell them too. Hell, I'd like to be able to talk to any woman I've had sex with that doesn't have a conversation ending with them storming off or yelling about "Where I tried to stick it". |
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06-16-2009, 04:41 PM | #75 (permalink) | |
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Total agreement here. going on just over 5 years of a completely loveless marriage. I wish I were single-then I could at least have fun. Its like being in prison-no fun or money for me. Nothing like getting yelled at for everything all the time. The worst part is I never figured it would come to this. Been thinking divorce for about a year-can't pull the trigger yet despite being miserable. Soon, hopefully |
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06-16-2009, 06:46 PM | #78 (permalink) |
Currently sour but formerly Dlishs
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i dont lose my 'single' tag until i marry the 4th wife...
currently looking for the second wife... only Ratbastid can help me...
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06-18-2009, 11:33 AM | #79 (permalink) |
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dlish, you think 4 women will be momentarily dumb enough to fall for your bullshit? It's absolutely amazing that you managed just ONE! Don't be greedy.
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06-18-2009, 12:09 PM | #80 (permalink) | |
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Dlish is much better looking than I am -and- is better at using Ye Olde English language. He could totally bag a large number of voomen. |
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