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Junkie
Location: South Carolina
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pregnancy and drugs question..help
Ok, so a friend of mine is a hardcore stoner. I have never smoked anything in my life, but she refuses to stop while she's pregnant...
so, i know some of the dangers of cig smoking while pregnant, but it is insanely hard for me to find things to show her about weed smoking while pregnant...any ideas or is it harmless, as she says...
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Kick Ass Kunoichi
Location: Oregon
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There are more, but the general consensus is that smoking marijuana while pregnant is not good for the fetus. It's better to be safe than sorry, isn't it?
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Location: Central Central Florida
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What snowy said ...
If there's even a slight chance, known or unknown, that there could be an impact on growth or development, what kind of risks will she be willing to take as a parent? That might give her something to put in her pipe and smoke. ![]()
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comfortably numb...
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Location: upstate
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is she going to listen to us?
she needs more than we have to offer...
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Location: Locash
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from what I can see, low birthweight, possible premature birth (of course related) and later behavioral problems. if she's getting high, her fetus is exposed to the chemicals. let it turn into a human, and then let that human make choices.
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Tilted Cat Head
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Location: Manhattan, NY
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pick up her stash and flush it down the toilet.
throw away her pipes, rolling papers, and other paraphenalia. dont' throw it in the house, take it outside and throw it away elsewhere.
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Here
Location: Denver City Denver
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So... My ex (World's Queen) got knocked up by the dipshit she broke up with me for. She smokes weed every day. I hate drugs. All drugs. I asked her if she had quit since finding out she was knocked up. She said no and that her doctor was okay with it because it helps her eat without throwing it back up. She was lying to me. No doctor is gonna suggest you smoke weed when you're two months in...
It angers me so much.
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That pretty much sums up my thoughts. Generally when people use drugs of any kind they aren't going to just quit after seeing an article, particularly if they have already gotten defensive about it. Makes you sort of sick seeing it happen, all you can do is give her some information and hope for the best.
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Eat your vegetables
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Location: Arabidopsis-ville
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Do you have other friends who are willing to lay on the criticism? If she gets it from all angles and has a decent support group, she might be willing to give up pot for the duration of the pregnancy. Do you happen to know her physician? I'd probably throw him/her a little head's up if I were able.
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Location: CT
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I asked for resources on a forum dedicated to drug use, and got the following responses:
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Junkie
Location: Melbourne, Australia
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The baby is likely to have to do a drug withdrawal in their first weeks of life.
My argument would be this. If that withdrawal is a major thing, then you should cut the drug. On the other hand if you (the mother) reckon that it's a minor thing, then similarly, you should cut the drug. Is it fair to ask a baby to do what an adult will not do? (Of course I'm ignoring a few complexities here such as how much of the drug goes to the baby. But lets assume that it all does - unless we have data to the contrary). |
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If you think about it, it really is not surprising that there is so little information in the medical and scientific literature.
Studies come in variety of types. The best are double blinded controlled experiments. Any studies that involve human subjects must be approved by a panel of ethicists and get funding. It is next to impossible to design a study that involves giving ANY substance to pregnant humans (for this to even be considered the hypothesis would have to be that the substance was beneficail). When these kind of studies are impossible, information is gathered in case control studies. In other words, woman who have used drugs during pregnancy are compared to those who have not. Accurate results would require that both groups of woman give accurate and honest histories regarding their drug use. Both groups would have to be large enough (hundreds or thousands) to show a difference in the rate of rare occurances betweent the two groups to satisfy the statisticians. One could easily argue that research dollars would be better used on just about anything else and that common sense should be enough to know that taking illicit drugs are likely to impare your ability to be a good parent before or after birth.
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Junkie
Location: South Carolina
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oh,i know about how hard it is to get funding for it, but obviously people do it and i can actually find more information on coke use in mothers, heroin, too...
at any rate, 4 of our mutual friends basically held her down and trashed her weed and her dealer..... she said she'd stop, but only after hours of 'tough love' so to speak. sigh...
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Location: At my daughter's beck and call.
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Look, I just got out of rehab, so ignore me at will.
Here in Canada "harmless" weed is creating a whole class of people who, will not committing crimes, are addicts. They smoke daily, multiple times. It distances one from their emotions. Tell me that is not an effect on the brain. It is well known to stimulate the pleasure centers of the brain. If one continually stimulates the serotonin cycle, it diminishes the capacity of the brain to replenish it's ability to do so naturally. All of this is happening in the fetus' developing brain. If she refuses to stop she may need some professional help. Good luck.
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change is hard.
Location: the green room.
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This is a stupid question. Not on your part Paq, but that it needs to be asked is fucking stupid. Tell your friend to grow the hell up. In fact, do you want to be friends with someone that irresponsible?
/being an asshole
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Location: UK
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I worked in a wine shop and refused to sell cigarettes to a pregnant girl (about 18) although there is no law against it... I just couldn't do it. She wasn't happy about it and argued it was her right, but I just pointed at the "Right to refuse sale" sign above the door. |
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Crazy
Location: Where the wild things are.
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People who are on drugs/alcohol won't listen to anyone- especially those the closest to them. All you can do is be their friend but let them know you care. You've done your part. What they will do is rebell and most likely do it more. Usually pot smokers aren't like those addicted to hard drugs or alcohol, but those few with the chemical imbalance in their brain tend to act irrational and highly addicted as any other drug-user. I know- my ex used to be that exact same way with weed.
Even though I don't know the extent of smoking weed while pregnant- it can do harm. I smoked VERY VERY rarely (maybe twice) while I was pregnant but would only take 1 hit because I was too scared to think of any consequences. Maybe you can find some materials that talk about birth defects from drugs (including marijuana) and just lay it somewhere noticable for her.
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