10-07-2006, 12:03 AM | #1 (permalink) |
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The death of diversity and civility
This is MY opinion and MY opinion only. It is not fact but how I see the world today. Perhaps, it is how the world is, or perhaps it's just my own perception of reality.
There is a thread "What has happened to TFP?" I have read it and posted in it and since it's inception I have watched posts, applied those observations to the media and then people in real life. I have come to the conclusion what is wrong with TFP, is the same thing that is wrong in our society today. That is a lack of diversity, understanding, tolerance and the build up of angst, hatred and the "you either agree with me or fuck you, you are ignorant" extremism. No longer is there any middle ground. If you are a "Dem." you are a fucking liberal, freedom hating scumbag, who hates America". If you are a "Rep." you are a fascist, prejudiced, intolerant asshole, who believes Bush can do no wrong." It's not that those labels are remotely true it's just the way perceptions are today and unfortunately the hatred stemming from politics has bled into every other aspect of society and life. Everyone is now of the opinion you must agree with them, if not then they must attack you because their belief is the only way there is. We, as a society, and here in TFP have made EVERYTHING a black and white issue, a battle ground of opinion of right and wrong, and of hate, prejudiced and bias. When someone comes along and says there is a gray matter and that there is truth to both sides or offers an alternative not A or B.... they are dismissed by both sides as being flippy floppy, uneducated or just ignored. It seems we have become a nation of 2 choices and that is it. Anything else cannot nor will not be tolerated. If you take one side for one issue then you must take the same prejudged view for everything. I have stated once in politics that it seems we have become a nation of extremists GOP, Dem, Lib. because being extreme is the only way to be heard and everyone wants to be heard. Noone wants to be ignored. The above view on politics, I believe, has now imbedded itself throughout our society not just in this country but possibly everywhere else. Instead of letting world leaders be peace makers and work on compromises, we have to have leaders that refuse to bend in any way or we view them as weak. Instead of having friendly discussions on any range of subjecrs from education, sexuality, even nonpolitical headlines and sports, people are taking sides and saying "you either agree with me or fuck you". In the end it seems to me that TFP and our society is coming to a very serious crossroads. We either accept differing opinions, stop the attacks or we face a perilous end. But even that observation leaves no middle ground, although I am sure there is, and someone will point it out and demand that they are right and how dare I make such a close minded statement and blah blah blah..... I was always taught life is full of compromises and yet lately, I am seeing from our leaders down to just the minions like ourselves that we are becoming increasingly less compromising and more filled with anger, hatred and intolerence. It's time to find ways to stop this runaway train. TFP can be a great place to start. We once prided ourselves on it..... now we have lost those diverse voices, the civility and understanding..... let's try to get them back. Not just here but in the part of society each of us touches. If enough of us regain the civility, truly listening to each other and not just hearing what we want, and the idea that everyone can contribute ideas and perhaps there can be compromise, maybe we can change that little part of the world we touch, and in turn others who see us do it can change their little parts and someone sees them and so on and so on. What have we got to lose? It is becoming more and more apparent that all we accomplish now is hatred, prejudice and negativity. PS..... I do not want anyone to believe I am trying to be pious or self righteous. Just in case I am adding this addendum to the above..... I am just as guilty and moreso at times of the above as anyone. I want to believe in what I believe and I can only see black and white and I will get defensive and may not need to, but do just because I felt threatened. So, when I say the above I may have ione finger broadly going around the room, but I truly recognize I have 3 fingers pointed back at myself.
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I just love people who use the excuse "I use/do this because I LOVE the feeling/joy/happiness it brings me" and expect you to be ok with that as you watch them destroy their life blindly following. My response is, "I like to put forks in an eletrical socket, just LOVE that feeling, can't ever get enough of it, so will you let me put this copper fork in that electric socket?" Last edited by pan6467; 10-07-2006 at 04:19 AM.. Reason: Automerged Doublepost |
10-07-2006, 05:51 AM | #2 (permalink) |
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It's funny--as I read this, I kept jumping to "And you know whose fault that is?"
Look: human beings are righteous, inflexible, stubborn creatures. We want to be right above all things. We'd much rather be right than happy. Even when we're wrong. It's human nature. I'm not convinced that now is a particularly special time in history for that. It could be that a veneer of civility that has been there in the past is now not there. In some ways that's a good thing. You have to deal with what's really there before anything can be done about it, and sugarcoating or veneering civility over it is a great way not to deal with what's really there. Only question is whether people are committed to doing anything about it. |
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I think there is a little bit of both in society. I am not just looking at world leaders but the way we communicate just with each other. Maybe in my Pollyanna world growing up neighbors just talked to each other, got along for the most part and communities strived for the common good of all to better themselves. Today, what I see is everyone out for themselves. If you dare to do something I don't agree with or find offensive, I will sue your ever loving pants off, if I see you punish your child in anyway I'll call Children's Services, but if you are too scared to punish your child then I will label him a brat, who has no manners, label you as bad parents and tell everyone in the community just how eveil you are no matter which scenario happened. If you cut me off in traffic your an asshole, who is out to kill someone and I hope you crash, yet if I cut you off it was because you are moving too slow, even though I got no further than 1 car length ahead of you and will not make my destination that much noticably faster. And so on. Don't get me wrong there are still acts of kindness and good people around, but anymore it gets rarer and rarer and people are looking for ulterior motives and seeing kindness as weakness, rather than seeing it for what it truly is.
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I just love people who use the excuse "I use/do this because I LOVE the feeling/joy/happiness it brings me" and expect you to be ok with that as you watch them destroy their life blindly following. My response is, "I like to put forks in an eletrical socket, just LOVE that feeling, can't ever get enough of it, so will you let me put this copper fork in that electric socket?" |
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10-07-2006, 06:41 AM | #4 (permalink) |
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We are seeing the same trend over here aswell all over society, people are less forgiving less patient. It is as if the whole society has woken up on the wrong side of the bed.
I agree, things has become very black and white noone want's to even acknowledge the existance of a middle ground. Maybe it is not as bad here as it is in the US but still, it is a noticable difference from just a couple of years ago. Part of it lies, I would think, in the political situation today. Leaders becoming more extreme (Bin Laden, Whoever is in charge over in N Korea, Bush etc. etc.) everybody is hardballing it and I would imagine that it spills over into the public. Either you are with us or you are against us, noone is allowed to be in the middle. People who speaks of peacfull solutions, compromises and understandings are being conciously ignored. Why? Human nature? Political climate? A bit of both I would imagine, that and a sever lack of selfdistance, inability to look upon oneself critically. People seem so wraped up in what vthey are doing they seem to stop wondering about what they are doing and why they are doing it even what the outcome of what they are doing will be. (Nuclear weapons tests in N Korea for example). Wheter we like it or not the political climate of the world finds it's way into our homes and workplaces. Into ourselves.
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10-07-2006, 08:06 AM | #5 (permalink) |
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Why does everyone assume that its somehow worse in their lifetime than in the past?
Same shit different century. The only real difference is how fast we can get the information we need to form our biased opinions. We have had endless wars, endless horrors, endless exploitation since civilization began, and if anything its far BETTER now than in the past. Its what it is, its who we are, to deny it is lying to ourselves.
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Sorry to simply state exactly what Ustwo said, but we're not reaching an all new low.
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10-07-2006, 09:07 AM | #8 (permalink) |
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it's funny reading all these vague references to some vague history that functions to vaguely demonstrate in a vague kinda way that everything is always basically the same from then to now it is always the same human beings do not make anything new they do not create anything situations just repeat.
this is a strange time, then, in an 1812 kinda way. there is considerable polarization in a 1969 kinda way over political questions (the political is a category constructed around the works of machiavelli, and so we are also still repeating the period of the borgias) the rise and continuous collapse of the american extreme right in a weimar 1928 kinda way is of a piece with the fragmentation of the left in a very 1848 kinda way and the collapse of civility therfore unfolds within the bourgeois public sphere in a very 1787 manner. except of course for television, which links everything happening now to the 1950s. and so there is turmoil in a 1936 sense linked to anomie in a 1919 kinda way and as a function of that we are living through a period of ideological incoherence that is all very very 1956. so folk worry about fragmentation in a kinda 1215 way but also in a kinda henri iv period way except with a certain 1984 perspective mixed in. people worry about fragmentation and this worrying about fragmentation makes them nervous: it is all most 1923 except that 1923 was not one thing it was different things in different places so maybe it is now less 1923 than it is 1973 it is hard to say. well there is iraq, which turns out to have been very spanish-american war in that the case for war was as much a fabrication as the blowing up of the maine but maybe its more tonkin gulf so more 1964 it is probably a bit of both 1898 and 1964 with a bit of 1915 (remember the lusitania) thrown in. except of course there is television so all this is very 1958 which means obviously that none of the stuff about the fraud that was the case for the iraq war could be true so the problem must be those who say it is they sow division and really should be dealt with, a line of thinking that is very ussr 1936 don't you think? yes, what we need is unity, national unity in a very 1941 kinda way or maybe it's more 1940. dissent is bad in a 1951 sense and so there is the haymarket scenario which we wonder about and there is the paris commune that we are worried about and so extraordinary rendition, which is both very 2006 and curiously very james bond, so 1966, an important aspect of the past we repeat that we had not previously been able to work into this. we learned about the importance of the general will from rousseau's writings of the 1770s which we repeat or would if the 1770s were one thing but they weren't so maybe 1696 france would be better except we don't like the french, which is very 2001 which was also a movie that came out in 1971 so we repeat that too. people wish that more people liked each other more in a very summer of love manner 1967 but there is the hard reality of geopolitics and that is typically 1815 and so which history are we repeating repeating? not knowing the answer is very 1788 except that 1788 was not one thing either so maybe 2006. maybe the way to deal with all this is to simply go out and get drunk, which rabelais also recommended so we repeat the 1630s each time we do. how do we feel about the 1630s? how do we feel about repeating the past? that is an important 1989 question and i am glad you brought it up. same shit different day. but what are you talking about? o nothing--you know, nothing in a meister echkhardt sense in a basho sense so something vaguely 15th century or 17th century japan maybe. wait, i feel a gertrude stein quote on the horizon: let us say what history teaches. history teaches. isn't that terribly 1926 oxford? were you there too? i am here now so yes i was there. same shit different day. nothing ever changes.
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10-07-2006, 09:40 AM | #9 (permalink) | |
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See this is exactly the thing this thread is about, overreaction. And no, I'm not attacking you, I'm not insulting you, the only thing I do is point out the pattern I see emerging both in my real life and in my net life. I'm not innocent in this either.
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10-07-2006, 10:19 AM | #10 (permalink) |
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I find that in the past communities strove to move forward and people cared about one another.
It could be argued and rightfully so, that privacy was almost non-existent, in these cases. However, today, people are more worried about themselves. You see it in education levies, tax cuts, what is cut, in job loyalty from both sides, in pay diferentials between upper management and everyone else and the list can go on and on. You see it in bumper stickers that say "he who dies with the most toys wins." You see it in the media. As a student of history, it has never been this bad on such a large scale. The polarization is truly becoming more and more entrenched. Even in the 60's, there were peace makers and compromises between leaders and political parties...... now there is none, and no it wouldn't matter which party was in power right now.
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I just love people who use the excuse "I use/do this because I LOVE the feeling/joy/happiness it brings me" and expect you to be ok with that as you watch them destroy their life blindly following. My response is, "I like to put forks in an eletrical socket, just LOVE that feeling, can't ever get enough of it, so will you let me put this copper fork in that electric socket?" |
10-07-2006, 10:44 AM | #11 (permalink) | |
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Most of the time the moderate position gets lost in the debate, which focuses on the extremes. Moderates can come under attack from both ends for not agreeing completely with their end of the issue.
Sometimes the extreme position is the reasonable one. Sometimes the moderate position seems extreme because it is in opposition to an extreme position, and the opposite extreme is completely off the table. I do think that it should be possible to argue any point starting from a position of civility. I insist on it in my classroom, regardless of the point of view being expressed, even if I agree completely with it. Disagreeing with someone else, even strongly, does not mean abandoning common courtesy. ----------------------------------------- Quote:
It's a web of communities interacting and affecting each other in sometimes strange and unexpected ways. There's nothing wrong with this vast community of smaller communities. The diversity brings opportunities that don't exist in otherwise. Part of the problem of civility is that different subcultures are going to have different standards of behavior, and these will come into conflict with the standards from one are applied to another or within another. For this reason, we need to have an overall guideline for such interactions to minimize conflicts, a standard set of expected behaviors for all members of the overall community. What that should be is where we're going to run into conflict. I think showing a general respect for others should be the baseline from which we start. Gilda
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10-07-2006, 11:15 AM | #13 (permalink) |
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Its spelt grey you fucking inbred hick! Not gray!
I think of the TFP as the most civilized and informed board i know of, if you compare it to somewhere like webrats or spacebattles we all look like a bunch of old grannies in our rocking chairs comparing dictionaries. In my opinion the TFP is just going through a downturn, not so many people posting, less active members, but give it a while until it picks up again and we'll be fine. That and we're all just stubborn gits
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10-07-2006, 01:44 PM | #14 (permalink) |
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let me put it this way, then, repeating at another level what already repeated above...i think there is little moderation because the existing political frameworks, all of which were linked to the history of the nation-state, are coming apart. folk act like there is some middle to be represented, but what is the middle? what is the middle a middle of? the previous spirits of compromise (a very hegel turn of phrase, that) operated in very different socio-economic contexts--for example, in late 1960s america, there was a significant political crisis sparked by a pile-up of factors that nonetheless unfolded at the end-phase of the fordist period, which was built around the nation-state--and so the political frameworks--right, moderate, left--all still made sense--but that period is over and has been for quite some time--the period of the domination of nation-states is coming undone and politics has not caught up yet. in the states, this is no surprise--it seems that the slowest to adapt sector in the states is the educational system and that system in the broadest sense is still ideologically mired in the fordist era, still socializes students in wholly outmoded categories and wholly outmoded ways of thinking--it does not, in short, provide people with the conceptual toolbox (which is what deleuze---who i normally would not reference--used to define philosophy) that would enable them to cope with fundamental change.
i think we are in a phase of collapsing frameworks. my more optimistic side keeps telling me that new ways of thinking and functioning could come out of such a phase---my less optimistic side thinks that while this would certainly be desirable, it is by no means a foregone conclusion that anything like this result will unfold and we cold find ourselves tanking in a serious, protracted and potentially very ugly way. and i do not think anyone--at all--stand outside of this situation. everyone, one way or another, is caught up in it, peforms it, reacts to it or against it. i certainly am not outside it. i find it hard to generate descriptions even. that is maybe why my posts read as they do. so compromise, the spirit of....well, folk need to work outside of the existing frameworks and experiment with other ways of thinking. people need to make new stuff. new social logics are not handed to us by any god, who, if she exists, probably has other, more pressing things to tend to in this vast system of systems we call the universe. meanwhile, there is a social system that requires very significant adjustment and i do not know if that system really can afford to wait around until groups of people nobody yet knows about begins to develop the germ of a different type of political thinking, which may then be elaborated practically by others into a viable post-nation-state type of political action. so i don't know.... as for civility, it is a nice thing. it reminds me of a joke i heard last night while watching a bill brown short on dvd: canadians could probably take over the world, but they are just too polite to start. maybe that's equally true of all of us.
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10-07-2006, 02:05 PM | #15 (permalink) | |
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Us brits could take over the world (again), but the EU would want us to do a health and safety assesment before hand.
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10-08-2006, 07:44 AM | #18 (permalink) |
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Hey cool host, good to see you outside of politics...oh wait...nm
Who started protesting idioticly in Florida? Who riots and causes a lot of damage at every WTO meeting? Who tried to bend election laws which used your lovely above photo? Who tried to get military votes invalidated? Who still whines about a stolen election that was anything but stolen? Who decided to turn this into a Bush thread with lots of cut and pasting as usual? Who is going to go get his house all cleaned up for the grandparents for his sons 2nd birthday? Mmmmm cake.
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10-08-2006, 12:41 PM | #19 (permalink) |
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Well to figure this out lets look at what has changed in the last 50 years, from when middle class america was preceived as much more docile (ignoring the south and other extreme examples)
People were more religious then. Families consisted of a working parent, a stay at home parent. Society wasn't so preoccupied on safety. People went outside instead of watching the television/internet. People weren't raised on the philosophy of "you are special" Basically people today don't really believe in anything, are overprotected from any actual danger, and sit on their asses all day. Go outside, play some frisbee. Things will be better!
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10-08-2006, 04:22 PM | #21 (permalink) |
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The cake was good.
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10-09-2006, 05:47 AM | #22 (permalink) | |
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Too much media/current issues at our disposal. Oh it's great to know what is happening, but it use to be only 30 minutes of news every night with Walter and 30 minutes of local news on the radio at lunch and with nice tid bits from Paul Harvey. And on Saturday's you had Face the Nation for another 30 minutes and Sundays it was an hour and a half of Sunday Morning. Unless we were "away" from the radio and tv, we got about 8 to 10 hours of news weekly. An average guess. And now we can get 24 hours in one day, if we choose. If it's not on the news/tv, you have access on the internet. It's like overkill. I'm with JBW, let's step away from this stuff for a little while. Jeeze. |
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10-09-2006, 07:33 AM | #23 (permalink) | |
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Interesting. I put forth an opinion told everyone it was just opinion and how I saw things.
In the process there is fingerpointing and personal attacks between member (don't need to tell you who). There is the "give it time, TFP just on a downturn", "too much media, no beliefs and such" and the "I look for leaders who don't compromise.... Moderates get attacked" threads. Everyone is just as qualified to their opinion as me, that's a given. Noone offers solutions except: Quote:
AGAIN THIS IS JUST MY OPINION, IT IS NEITHER RIGHT NOR WRONG, IT IS JUST MY OBSERVATION AND IS NOT MEANT AS ANYTHING ELSE BUT MY OWN OPINION. I think one of the downfalls to all the technology is the fact that we become more insular, we are now able to seek out those who most resemble us and give us the false courage and beliefs that only our opinions, values and ideas are the answers. No longer do we have to face our neighbors and work out compromises, no longer do we have to go to PTA meetings, or getting involved. We don't, we have our instant involvement through here, where we can be anybody we want, have whatever degrees we want, and say we are anything..... who knows differently? Noone. Thus, we go to jobs we don't like, we get traffic jams, we get shitty service from people who could care less about their jobs and barely make a living, and so on. We get home read the newspaper, websites and mags, watch the news, whatever, and get barraged with news and issues we cannot change in any way. We get slammed with negativity in every way shape and form: The shows we watch are wrong and studies show make us more violent or hateful to women or.... The water we drink is contaminated because the Big Industry had a spill, but the spill was caused partly by protesters outside protesting that company's ethics..... We have kids that aren't learning and schools close to bankruptcy but we vote down levies that can help them, because we hear of all the waste that we truly don't know if it exists or not..... but we are told that by the people we trust on a national scale, who give diddly about our communities and care more about their ratings then they do about the country. We see people having to live on shitty wages, those workers are at fault because there are better jobs and it's their fault they don't have the education..... but if someone isn't paid what they believe they need to live on, they are only going to put forth that much energy and loyalty, especially when raises are 25 cents in a year and so on. Factories are closing down to go overseas, but those workers were at fault, because they knew those jobs weren't going to last and they're pay is tohigh and so on..... yet these people because of the wages had disposable income to keep small shops open, to pay taxes and to keep the economy moving forward without too much debt. So where does all this leave us? It is my contention and belief that we seek out those that share our beliefs and refuse to find compromise because we are able to be who we want, and say what we want and find people who will agree with us, to support our views and those who don't we can bully, bring out made up credentials and not have to worry about ever being found out. In essence, we can control everything we need and want to here, that we can't do in our own lives. We can have a voice here, that in our lives because of being beaten down, stressed out, feeling hopeless and so on, we don't have. Therefore, we don't have to compromise, try to envision what would work better, try to help each other..... and then this cyber made up ego takes shape because we find media figures who can stroke it and tell us more of what we want to hear, truth be damned, and we don't have to worry about local issues, we don't have to look at the factories leaving, the taxes lost that we, taxpayers, will have to absorb somehow....... we don't have to care about anything.... because we have our views justified every time we turn around..... we have the pats on the back, our egos stroked and our views held up as the only solutions needed.... everyone else is an asshat, mmonbat, whatever......
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I just love people who use the excuse "I use/do this because I LOVE the feeling/joy/happiness it brings me" and expect you to be ok with that as you watch them destroy their life blindly following. My response is, "I like to put forks in an eletrical socket, just LOVE that feeling, can't ever get enough of it, so will you let me put this copper fork in that electric socket?" |
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10-09-2006, 07:49 AM | #24 (permalink) |
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Oh my god.. host killed the thread.
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10-09-2006, 08:03 AM | #25 (permalink) |
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I have a tendency to have a light post. Not meaning I am taking your information "lightly", but that I've come to the understanding that the public wants instant gratification...............in ALL things.
It takes alot of patience to not go into a defensive mode. Therefore, alot of energy is expelled on giving ones own opinion. And many aren't going to go through that much energy. So, then you have the slams and attacks that are made on "your" person, and if you don't want a confrontation, you strive for more patience. Which means you will need more energy and tact. You wanted a solution. Patience is your solution. But, no one wants to put forth that much energy. For Patience takes up a lot of energy and looking at today's society, who wants to go through that? Not when they can get pretty much everything at their finger tips. |
10-09-2006, 08:50 AM | #26 (permalink) | |
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I have my gratification and my views are now justified. I can proceed to now flame anyone who doesn't agree. (Sarcasm plain simple sarcasm)
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I just love people who use the excuse "I use/do this because I LOVE the feeling/joy/happiness it brings me" and expect you to be ok with that as you watch them destroy their life blindly following. My response is, "I like to put forks in an eletrical socket, just LOVE that feeling, can't ever get enough of it, so will you let me put this copper fork in that electric socket?" |
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