07-08-2006, 12:33 AM | #1 (permalink) | |
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'Breast ironing' to stunt girls' growth widespread
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2. Yes indeedy, I see the logic of this: In order to protect your daughter from abuse from other people, you have to do it yourself. So by the time you're done with her... she's already abused, so nobody else would want to abuse her. Abuse should be kept in the family, damnit. The best way to detter abusers is, of course, by torturing their victims till they are unnatractive. Yes, this makes perfect sense. *Bangs head against wall* 3. Can someone please explain to me how "ironing" a breast actually does anything? Sure, you can burn flesh by putting a hot enough stone on it, but how is moderate heat supposed to do anything? It just seems like superstitious woo to me. I can't think of any properties of heat that would prevent breasts from growing. |
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07-08-2006, 01:07 AM | #2 (permalink) |
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The story says the stones are heated in a fire and pressed on the breasts as they are developing. I suppose the combination of heat and pressure could break up the fat deposits as they're forming, and it could easily damage the ducting tissues or developing mammary glands, which aren't well protected in prepubescent girls.
My guess is that it doesn't do what it's supposed to do anyway. Rapists rape for a complex combination of reasons, only one of which is sexual attraction. Babies only a few months old and 80 year old women are raped. It's stigmatizaion of female sexuality, a belief that women should not be sexual or enjoy their sexuality, the same motive as genital mutilation. Instead of addressing the actual problem--inappropriate sexual aggression in many males--they punish the potential victims as a preventive measure. Ths really underscores the need to constantly be reevaluating traditions to determine if they serve any useful function. That something has always been done a certain way does not mean that it should be done that way. Gilda |
07-08-2006, 02:12 AM | #3 (permalink) |
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I suppose a mother worried about her daughters being targeted for sexual harrassment and rape is a more logical rationale than what I've heard for other forms of female genital mutilation, but that doesn't change my low opinion of such practices, or undermine the damage it does to its victims.
I'm on the same page as Gilda. This is about the suppression of female sexuality, and the claim that it serves as a nominal deterrant to sexual harrassment is probably just trying to cover up the true intention of the practice. I spot-on agree with those last two sentences about reevaluating traditions.
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07-08-2006, 02:23 AM | #4 (permalink) | |
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07-08-2006, 02:33 AM | #5 (permalink) |
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I think one of the biggest wastes of time is to loftily condemn practices from another culture through the ivory tower of your own. Cultural bigotry. It's West Africa, not Iowa. Unless you're from there, how can you possibly judge the value or morality of someone else's unique customs? IF breast ironing bothers you, then don't raise your daughters there.
That's no different than telling Scottish men to stop wearing kilts because men in your culture just don't DO that. Ewww. Are you really suggesting that we send some kind of army of American righteous-culturists into another nation and tell them to stop doing something because it makes us uncomfortable? No wonder people hate Americans.
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07-08-2006, 02:50 AM | #6 (permalink) |
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I suppose it becomes a sensitive area (no pun intended) when these traditions target the sexual psychology of women and children. While I can't say I mind ritual scarification or piercing as a rite of passage (although it's done in less than sanitary conditions), I won't in the same breath condone female circumcision or this "breast ironing," even if people claim that it serves the same purpose.
This is the first I've heard of this particular practice, but it seems unfortunate that the women in that area of the world are so affected by what was done to them in their youths that they feel the need to do it to their own children, "for their own good," without understanding the dangers of such practices or the psychological effects on their kids. A reevaluation of tradition doesn't mean the destruction of all cultural practices.
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07-08-2006, 05:13 AM | #8 (permalink) |
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warrrreagl, I'm not sure that you could tell from the article, but upon reading it a second time, it's clear that it's not a band of purist Americans that is trying to induce change.
these girls' doctors - in their own villages - are recommending a stop to the practice. It is a health concern: inability to create breast milk, loss of breast, and breast cancer are dangerous problems. What is the harm in wealthy Americans choosing to fund a campaign that interests them? Should it make a difference that it's in another country? I don't see a problem with it. Their resources; their choice. As a country, we're not declaring war on Camaroon over their female genitalia mutilation or breast ironing.
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07-08-2006, 10:00 AM | #10 (permalink) |
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This story along with others that document female mutilation are just barbaric. How as a parent you could put your child through something like this is beyond me....
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07-08-2006, 10:19 AM | #11 (permalink) |
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Excellent post, Gilda. I couldn't agree more.
This issue seems to be a combination of 1) the overprotective nature of certian individuals, espically parents who were not raised understanding healthy boundries so far as protection 2) a true and striking lack of empathy 3) a misunderstanding of normal social interaction between males and females 4) irrational fear of intamacy which is fundamentally linked to 5) ultra-puritanic views towards sexuality (e.i. sex is da debil!!) 6) unhealthy vicarious relationship between mother and daughter 7) a gross misuse of geology. Child abuse is a very serious crime, and should always be reported to the proper authorities. |
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07-08-2006, 10:38 AM | #13 (permalink) | |
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I see this as being comparable to things like vaginal mutulation. It's obviously abusive, whether it's culturally based or not. Last edited by Willravel; 07-08-2006 at 12:25 PM.. Reason: not automerged post |
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07-08-2006, 05:35 PM | #16 (permalink) |
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It is valid to criticise some practices - on purely medical grounds.
As with the poster above, I believe the comparison with kilts is miguided (or just sloppy). Forms of clothing or behaviour are in a different class than medical/physical procedures - and have less permanant effects. They are also less painful. But while rejecting those arguments - I would still agree that we have to be somewhat careful in criticising other cultures. We should remember that these people have not been given the education that we have (mine was free) and live in different circumstances. The people carrying these actions out, while misguided, seem well-meaning. We should also I believe continue to question the problematic areas of our own cultures, medical practices and behaviours. If we don't do that then we have no right to make suggestions to others. |
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