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Male perspective anyone?
As a whole, we generally take considerably longer to mature than the female sex.Some of us never really do. It is quite correct that the male ego is an eggshell, already cracked, and we are sometimes ignorant enough to drop it all by ourselves.
Usually by the age of forty, most of the baggage has been lost at one airport or another(read relationship) but if a male has been in too few real relationships, he will lack the experience to cope.
I honestly feel that we "need" to avoid monogomy until a certain level of growth has been achieved, if we expect to meet the needs of a full and loving relationship.
In other words, males are children for a large part of thier lives, but when maturity hits, we can be incredible partners.
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Holding onto anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned. - Buddha
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