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Originally posted by -Anders
I already feel like I'm taking advantage of someone if I have sex with them, I couldn't dream of having sex with someone that might not fully understand it.
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I think that stems from the male being seen as a sex predator in our society, no matter whether he's a rapist or not. It strips women of responsiblity and allows society to not have to deal with female arousal, and since men are the intiators and agressors in the "game"most of the time it provides a convenient scapegoat. Perhaps in days of yore it was a predatory relationship but now women have the oportunity to be as strong and aggressive as we are,and that includes going after men sexually. I think we have to stop portraying men as predators and women as innocent victims of sex. Women are slow to rise but damn if they aren't as sexually hot as us when fully aroused. If consent is implied or explicitly given there are no victims, only participants.
I wouldn't feel that way...think of it as a woman desiring you, and wanting to share something with you not everyone gets, even if she's promiscuous, which there is nothing wrong with if she's savvy with STD protection. I'm not coming down on you, just trying to figure out your feelings.
I think many would share this feeling in engaging in sex with the mentally handicapped. As long as a partner can understand what is going on and welcomes your touch I can't see a problem with it. If they have memories of their previous life they will most likely understand and want sex still, especially when the desires of the body combine with the less bridled affectionate nature of the mentally less-abled, desiring closeness.