If an SO became retarded...
A serious thread.
If your SO had an accident and received a brain injury making them functionally retarded, assuming you stay with them, would you have a sex life with them? Let's assume they hadn't forgot your lives before, they just had less intellectual ability than before and didn't function on the same level as you anymore. Would you feel strange about it? And if you did, and they had normal adult urges and approached you for sex in their own way, would you reject them?
For me, as long as they could understand the concept of what I was doing with them and they wanted to be close to me sexually I could. I mean they're a different person, sure, and it can be argued in more severe retardation, i.e. non-functional, but I just couldn't push them away becuase they weren't as smart as I was anymore. The burden would be on you to direct intimate contact and the burden of quality would probably be on you, but I just wouldn't turn away someone for that, provided they wanted the contact in that form.
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I happen to like the words "fuck", "cock", "pussy", "tits", "cunt", "twat", "shit" and even "bitch". As long as I am not using them to describe you, don't go telling me whether or not I can/should use them...that is, if you want me to continue refraining from using them to describe you. ~Prince
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