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In a way I have been cheated on. It went like this:
Went out with my boyfriend for a couple months, went out of town, I came back to find out he had kissed this girl a few times at a party. I was pissed, told him to leave me alone for a week while I thought things over. After that week we got back together. Six months down the road I found out he had been sleeping with his ex the week we were apart. Not exactly cheating, since technically we were on a "break", but it still hurt like nobodies business. I ended up breaking up with him because after the ensuing fights I realized that I couldn't really communicate with him about problems, he could be very manipulative and sneaky and would try to twist the situation around and play the blame game. Even if I could have forgiven him for that week, his communication style and manipulative nature would have posed a problem in the future.
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