You can't make someone grow up and get rid of their insecurities. If you were to call her at all, I would just offer to give an open ear to any concerns she might have. Don't be judgemental and just listen. Be agreeable and don't try to "solve" things. If she is receptive to talking, then there is a chance. If she says no, then offer to be an open ear in the future, hang up and don't call back. The ball is in her court on this one.
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