I know my wife got some videos on her own a few years back that would probably fit your bill. They were from the Adam & Eve catalog. You can order a catalog at
http://www.adameve.com
They have descriptions and categories that will prolly help.
If the link, below, doesn't work, then: On their site they have a "shopping guide" - bottom left of the left hand gray nav. menu. then go to "adult video" and click on "Candida Royalle's Femme Collection". I can't vouch for them, but they sound like your ticket.
http://www.adameve.com/femme_index.a...A4140F917D02F8
The Candida Royalle's Femme Collection description on their site is this:
..."Welcome to the Femme Collection, featuring my "woman friendly" couples line. I created the Femme line in order to put a woman's voice to adult movies and give men something they could share with the woman in their life. I like to call my Femme movies "sensually explicit", or as one viewer described them, the "Rx for couples". You'll find them to be less graphic and lacking in the traditional "money shot", a staple of most adult films. You'll also find story lines, good original music and real characters of all ages. Counselors often prefer to use my movies in their work with couples because of their "woman friendly" approach and what they call "positive sexual role modeling." So if you're looking for something both of you can enjoy, you've come to the right place!"...