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I agree, without total trust you might as well just ditch the whole thing. My wife likes to go to sleep around 9 or so, I can't fall asleep until 3am usually. Since there's not a lot to do here that won't wake her up, I go out a lot, 3 or 4 nights a week at least usually. The kicker is that I usually go out with other women, all my guy friends have to work in the morning, some of the women don't have to be in until the afternoon, so I'm usually with women. My wife not only doesn't care, but she'll tell me to get one of my girlfriends and leave because I'm keeping her up and getting on her nerves.
She wasn't always like that, when we first started dating she was really jealous. Then a few times I had plans with friends, and she didn't want to go, she wanted to watch movies. Anyhow, she called her ex fiance over to watch the movies with her, since they'd been friends since they were little. When she saw that I didn't give a shit, after that everything became all right with her. I trust her 100%, when she saw it wasn't a one way track then she quit worrying.
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