My wife started sucking my fingers the other day while on top of me. This kind of all stemmed out of a discussion I had with her about trying to enjoy sex more. She approaches everything in life with a Type A drive that says she has the best, so she was always concerned about not being good enough in bed. I told her that she really needed to focus on the feelings and get the intellectual stuff out of the bedroom. It is through focusing on what feels good that you get more passion out of sex rather than saying I need to do step 1, 2 and 3. She remembered us seeing a couple in a restaurant not that long ago where the woman was kind of sucking her date's fingers. I told her that looked sexy as hell, and I guess she took it from that.
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