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gyms are total meat markets. you may meet women there, but if they are out on the machines, they tend to get hit on so hard by muscle heads that they are generally in highly defensive modes. unless you are man enough to take an aerobics class, you may find it pretty rough territory.
all the tips above are on target. but you need to do a profile. what kinds of women do you want to meet? think about what their interests might be, and then try to place yourself where that would happen. if you want to meet someone with certain religous values, get involved in a church. if you want to meet arty types, take an art class. intellectuals, go to book store events.
if you are looking to avoid club skag, but just want to hang out and try to meet chicks without pursuing some kind of trumped up interest, i suggest you start haunting starbucks or some coffee shop... preferably near a shopping area with a high end shoe store (sorry ladies, it's cliche, but often true). but have a good reason to be there, you don't want to seem like you are trolling or stalking. take a book or have a reason to shop for something yourself and then ask your likely prospect advice on your item. i don't reccomend supermarkets, grocery shopping is usually a chore... go where they buy clothes, which many women do for fun.
parks are also good if you are in an urban setting. find a buddy and go play chess or something. also, dog people are usually very cool, and if you get a dog, it is not only great company for you, but it also shows women that you are responsible and come home to take care of you pet. i know lots of dog walking hookup stories.
i have many gal pals who when they want to meet men, head to to the espn zone on gameday.
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