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Originally posted by exizldelfuego
Just out of curiousity, for all those involved in relationships in which this actually happens, how was it initiated? My guess would be:
(1) female does it to the male, works out well, talk about it later and incorporate it into their sex life.
(2) either says to the SO "You know, it would be a huge turn-on if..." at some appropriate point in some conversation that might possible lead to that being said... whatever that conversation might be.
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It's been so long since first started but if I remember right it was discussed as something that would be enjoyed before it even occured. We have talked about many things and had phone sex when we were apart while engaged so once we got back together we were well aware of the other's sexual tastes and fantacies. I think it first occured with hubby waking me though. Don't quote me on that though. He already knew I would like that and woke me slowly and quietly. It was sweet.
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