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iceburn, this is really good advice to a new group of girls, but the situation seems to be in this case that Ballzor has been friends with all the girls in this group for a while now, but is unable to isolate one to tell her how he feels.
If this is how it is Ballzor, there have to be opportunities where these girls aren't in one tight pack. Even if they are close together, ask the girl you like if you could talk to her... alone. If she's interested in you, or even interested in what you have to say, she'll come with you. She'll do the work for you. Once you have her by herself, tell her how you feel and ask her out to someplace where you can talk and have fun. (park, arcade, your house for a movie, pool hall) If she rejects, get rid of as much ackwardness as you can- tell her "nothing really has changed, we can still be friends" or something similar, then talk about something else like a recent movie or something. Even if she rejects you then (unlikely as that is) she now thinks of you in a different light- not just "some friend guy" but "possible boyfriend guy". You should watch it though, because then she has the power in the relationship. You should be fine though, you don't even have to tell her how you feel, or even that you're going on a "date". Just ask her out to some place that involves just you and her, and let her know how you feel then.
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