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I don't think its a matter of going to where they "hang-out". Generally speaking, I think you may need to change your "social circles". By that I mean venture out to other hobbies, sports, interests - by yourself if necessary- and meet new groups of people. For instance, join a ski club, a cooking club, a new sporting event booster club, an alumni association, volunteer for any organization(s) that interest you. The choices are endless once you open your eyes up to the possibilities. For almost every interest there are groups of people that gather to share those interests. Once you get involved, in any such organization really, the new people you meet will get to know you, and get to know your personality and your needs. Either you will meet new ladies directly, (or gentleman as this advice applies equally for ladies) - or indirectly through the new people and groups of people you meet. It is not an easy thing to do, as meeting new people and cracking into established "cliques" of friends takes time and effort, but you can never go wrong as you inevitably will make new friends, that you can involve with your old friends as you see fit, and will through these new friends be exposed to new ladies that meet your criteria. I hope this helps.
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