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if you haven't already, read plan9's thread on getting girls 101. Or if you don't wanna read it, I can try and tell my take on what's going on.
Basically, right now she is controlling the situation. She's making a lot of friends with guys, and she could pull one of them in any time for a relationship. What you have to do is stop focusing on just her; if you guys go out, make sure you talk to other girls. Don't just focus on her, have a good time, have fun and you'll find that she might start to take more of a liking to you. By just focusing on her, and by you two not being in a serious relationship, you are making yourself look less confident and less attractive and more like a wimp. But you're not a wimp, you're a man, and you gotta show her this.
So get away from just looking at her and enjoy life...if something happens it happens. If you get too close into the friend zone though, you'll never get into a relationship with her unless you somehow manage to jump ladders, and that's not an easy thing.
so just take it easy, live, and see what develops
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