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Originally posted by gibingus
congratulations. now pull your head out of your ass and wake the hell up. you are in deep shit, and this is the last place you should seek advice or validation for what you have done.
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this isn't a test... this is your life now. and it is really, really fucking hard. you sure you're up to it? ask yourself what is the biggest responsibility you have had to this point and then ask yourself again if you are doing the right thing by your kid if you decide to go through with this.
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I'd just like to say that this post was one of the best post I've read in months.
Every ounce of it is true for the most part, and it is cold hard reality.
A guy I work with, he's 21, recently had a kid. I honestly feel sorry for his child, for he is going to be brought up by two parents who dont love one another, and dont even live with each other. They only stick together to parent, and neither is parent worthy.
The guy barely makes enough money to cover his own ass, and neither does she. Even at 21, very VERY few people are even near ready to have a child in this day and age.
If its a religion reason why you are against abortion or adoption, thats great, you have somthing to beleive in at least. Otherwise, start re-thinking.
Countdown to you having no life, money, or relationships : T-Minus 8 months.