Tilted Forum Project Discussion Community - View Single Post - My future niece, and brother's stupid girlfriend.

teriaki · 02-19-2004, 09:27 AM

Thanks everyone for your feedback- I figured I'd have to suck it up.

As a little more background, my brother really loves this girl, they've been on and off for a little over a year- another problem I have is that she slept with his best friend (who has since died of cancer) while my brother and she were split up, and then lied about it for many months.

I refuse to ruin the relationship my brother and I have, but sometimes the facts of how this girl (and yes, you all picked up on it- she's very young. Not only in age, but in maturity as well) came into our lives, and what the future will hold (potential custody battles, broken hearts, etc) frighten me.

Suppose I just don't really approve of her for my brother, he's a gem.

Ah well, I reckon I needed a good vent- thanks for all the insight!

02-19-2004, 09:27 AM	#6 (permalink)
teriaki Tilted Location: San Francisco	Thanks everyone for your feedback- I figured I'd have to suck it up. As a little more background, my brother really loves this girl, they've been on and off for a little over a year- another problem I have is that she slept with his best friend (who has since died of cancer) while my brother and she were split up, and then lied about it for many months. I refuse to ruin the relationship my brother and I have, but sometimes the facts of how this girl (and yes, you all picked up on it- she's very young. Not only in age, but in maturity as well) came into our lives, and what the future will hold (potential custody battles, broken hearts, etc) frighten me. Suppose I just don't really approve of her for my brother, he's a gem. Ah well, I reckon I needed a good vent- thanks for all the insight! __________________ Cute, but useless.