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Originally posted by dannyboy21
I guess the crux of the matter is, do I really see her as a friend? And could I really do without her, as a person?
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I ask myself that every day. I think you'd be sorry if you decided that you had to choose one of those without considering your real feelings. If you let things flow and just change the things that cause immediate problems for you (like if she starts talking to you about other men) then it will work itself out. But I'm one to talk - I've been in the same situation, only for a day longer than you have been. I'm not good at listening to my own advice. I do, however, find that talking to other people about it helps a lot. Soon enough, what you really want and can deal with in your life will make itself clear. Until then, hang in there. I'm right there with you.
