Alrighty, this may be venting a little, but I could also use the advice on how to deal with a somewhat awkward situation.
My brother's girlfriend is pregnant- like way pregnant, and they're keeping it.
My family (dad, mom, extended relatives) and I think she intentionally got herself knocked up- by telling my brother she has been on the pill, and this happened because she was taking antibiotics when the deal was sealed.
That would be fine, if it were the truth.
As it was, she had a pregnancy 'scare' every month for 7 months before they conceived. Pregnancy tests left in the family bathroom for all to see, and speaking with my brother verified that, yes, she had inconsistent periods, thought she was pregnant every month, had severe mood swings and crying jags when she wasn't preggers....and it goes on and on.
Now, she's in our lives for good, and I understand this, but I am no longer comfortable with her based on my suspicions...well, convictions actually. I don't want to alienate my brother, and I'd like to have my niece in my life. So, the question is, how/do I speak with her about what I think? And if I shouldn't, any advice on what I can do to swallow the bitterness I feel about her intentionally trapping my brother?
Oh, and if this doesn't belong in this forum, please move it- I just thought this was a life subject
