As a man who has purchased too many vibrators, for too many different ladies *sigh* here's my reccommendations:
First and foremost;
An Egg Style Vibrator - they aren't intimidating in any way, are damn fine in their own right and seem to wet the appettite of the, ahem, user.
A Rampant Rabbit in some shape or form...
I think those two are the basics. They're damn fine in their own right, and plenty of fun - but there's a whole wealth of the little devils out there.
I like using
these on a lass, if i get the option.
As an aside, I think it's probably a good thing if you suppliment your vibrator purchase with some
top quality lube