The more breakups you experience, the easier it is to pick up the pieces of your life afterwards. It's one of those unexpected skills that creeps up.
But here is a word of advice: whenever you feel like crying, let yourself. And cry for everything you can think of crying for. Cry for guys you thought you were long over. Cry for the starving children in Africa. Cry for whatever your heart feels. Cry yourself to sleep. Cry until you're dehydrated, drink some water, and cry some more.
But until the urge hits, don't worry about it. You're learning a valuable skill. Pick up the pieces and move on.
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