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Don't be too quick to judge. I have had terrible experiences with the pill and will not go back on it! (Any brand turned me into a raving bitch.) Currently I'm using the patch and that seems much better. Before the patch came out, I used condoms and foam. A diaphragm is another option or an iud. Don't give up -- keep talking. There are a lot of options out there. He (you) may want to visit your local Planned Parenthood together. That is what Lebell and I did -- even at our age. We found them to be an excellent resource who are use to talking about just such matters.
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If you can go deeply into lovemaking, the ego disappears. That is the beauty of lovemaking, that it is another source of a glimpse of god
It's not about being perfect; it's about developing some skill at managing imperfection.
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