Heya girls,
I got this PM a few days ago; maybe you girls can shine your brilliant lights on this one for me?
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Hi Lisa.
Read your thread in the Ladies Lounge. (Yes, I'm also one of the guys who go tere every so often) And I found your thread rather interesting. I was wondering if you or the fellow female board members could possibly give me some advice:
I am in a monogamous relationship with a girl, and calling our sex life "Healthy" would be an understatement. We use condoms, but I would prefer a backup, since the last thing both of us need at this point in our lives is an unwanted pregnancy.
She has had a bad experiece before with the pill, and when I brought this subject up, she bluntly stated that she wont go on the pill or for injections. I've tried telling her that she should perhaps try a different brand (and consult with her gynae), but the matter is apprently closed. But I have experienced a pregnancy scare once, so I'm still pretty paranoid and every month I'm waiting anxiously for her to get her period. Plus, every time we have sex, my mind wanders to this subject, and I would rather be free to enjoy having sex with her more fully.
How do I make her understand this? How do I convince her to try it again? And if I cant, which of the other contraceptive methods should I suggest she try?
Thanks for your help.
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Come on girls!
Help this guy out of need!
