just to add to arch's little advertisement for planned parenthood -- you might want to check out this link from the planned parenthood teen site:
http://www.teenwire.com/index.asp?ta...981201p001.asp
they do say: "While a minor can receive contraceptive information and services without parental permission, the law in many states requires her to inform a parent, or to receive parental consent, before an abortion. " so it seem that you can get BC in any state -- notification laws seem to just target abortion.