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Ok......... my final point
Say I am gay have lived with the same man for 25 years.
First, in pretty much any religion from the time I was a kid I would have been told I was going to hell for my feelings and for my actions. EVEN THOUGH I HURT NOONE.
Secondly, in most cases the gay person's family (parents, brothers, sisters etc.) disown them or treat them as a shameful burden and won't accept them. My family is pretty liberal but I'm sure they would have problems, so I have to live with that guilt.
Thirdly, I have society that can get away with bashing me. Go to a gay bar where goons have beaten gays up, 99% of the time the police do NOTHING to the offenders. Plus, I have to live stereotyped as a weak infeminated person, jokes and abuse come at me pretty much from everywhere.
NOW, a society wants to add to these problems and say I am not entitled to the same rights with this man I lived with for 25 years that a woman would be entitled to? THAT'S MORAL?????? THAT'S BEING CARING??????
Nobody chooses to be gay. We all fall in love with a person who we find attractive and attractiveness is not just based on sex to most people. It's based on values, interests, goals, etc shared. Just because someone is of the same sex does not mean you cannot fall in love with that person.
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I just love people who use the excuse "I use/do this because I LOVE the feeling/joy/happiness it brings me" and expect you to be ok with that as you watch them destroy their life blindly following. My response is, "I like to put forks in an eletrical socket, just LOVE that feeling, can't ever get enough of it, so will you let me put this copper fork in that electric socket?"
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