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I've had sex without a condom.
I've had sex with a condom.
Sex with a condom is FUCKING FANTASTIC. Wanna know why? Because I know the chances of me getting pregnant or get an STD are greatly reduced. That feeling of security is great.
With my college boyfriend I think we used condoms maybe a half dozen times. If that. I was naive.
I was with a guy who had just been tested for STD's 3 months earlier (he was engaged to be married, ended up breaking up) and he had a vastectomy (probably butchered that spelling) so I knew that was safe and we didn't use condoms.
I used condoms with my last partner. And I had no complaints at all. Maybe he was just better than the other two, but either way, I'm not willing to risk pregnancy or an STD.
Next time I'm in a serious relationship (and I trust my partner not to cheat) we'll get tested for STD's together, I'll get on the pill and we'll stop using condoms. Until then, it's condoms every time.
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