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We had been married 8 or 9 years. He had lost all my trust due to gambling away all our money and our children's money. Then one day I found out he had an affair. The story goes: he was at a business meeting. A group of people had gone out for dinner. He mentioned a paper he wrote that she wanted a copy of. He asked her to his room to get it. He went to the bathroom and came out to find her naked. Not his fault! What else could he do but have sex with her.
I forgave him -- 5 kids and a commitment made me do that; but I didn't forget. It was less than 6 months after finding out about that affair that I found out he is also an alcoholic and was surfing the net for woman. Enough was enough.
I voted "dumped him;" although I'm not sure that was the correct vote as I forgae at first.
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