Yup, my first and only boyfriend cheated on me. Met him senior year in college. He was a year younger than me. We had your typical college relationship... When I graduated I wanted to break up because I didn't want to go into a long distance relationship (my home was in NY and college was in VA where he was from) but he wanted to stay together. He was on the football team and slept with a girl after a win. A week before I visited. During my visit for homecomming we broke up. But about 2 weeks later he called me up and wanted to get back together. I stupidly said yes. (I didn't know about him sleeping with the other girl)
I got him a plane ticket so he could visit me for New Years. A few weeks before he visited he started sleeping with a 17 year old high school senior he met online. The day he came to visit me we got in a car wreck and I was in the hospital for 5 days. He broke up with me the day I was released. I didn't find out about the high school girl and the one night stand girl until months later.
Sorry for rambling. I haven't had a relationship since. I don't know if its because I just haven't met the right guy or if theres something in me that's keeping a relationship at arms length. I'm trying to figure that out....
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