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Originally posted by Tuna911
Why does my Girl Friend not like me watching porn or going to the strippers?!?
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Aside from her insecurities, is it getting in the way of your sex life? She wants to have sex, you're going out to a strip club? Maybe that isn't the case, but still something to think about...
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Originally posted by Tuna911
I don't think there is anyone out there who hasn’t fantasized while they are with there partner! Am I wrong?
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Probably not, but if she can sense that, that might be part of the problem. ie, you're watching porn, then go in, turn out the light, and want to get straight to the sex without any real foreplay, no real paying attention to her. Again, maybe not the case, but something to think about.
On the "women aren't visually stimulated the way men are," that may be a stereotype, but it's true for me. I like eye candy as much as the next person, but if given the choice, I'd much rather read erotic fiction.
Anyway, back to the original post, communication is key. Talk to her about it, and let her know she's beautiful, sexy, and you love her. SHOW her these things as well.