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Originally posted by Strange Famous
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If all these rules offer is casual sex with girls who are prettier than you... I guess to be truthful maybe I would like it, but then I would probably feel dissapointed after. If people, male and female people, played less games with each other, I think it would be better.
And likening casual sex to a lion hunting its prey, is to me personally, possibly indicative of an attitude to matters of the heart that I would feel is rather strange. I mean, if all I wanted was to fuck someone, I could go get a hooker, a nice one, and for £60/$100 I'd get all of THAT, without any of the heart ache and fear of rejection...
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I agree with you man.
I'd personally rather have a meaningful relationship than just go out and have sport fucks. Doesn't mean I haven't used these methods to get laid because well, I'm a 22 year old male. I also once thought that using these types of methods to start with could lead to something more. But the times I did that, I became disinterested with the girl after a while because I had done that.
I now no longer pull this kind of shit because it isn't worth it to me. I don't want to have to wear a mask and act fake just to get some action. I don't want to have to put up with someone elses baggage just because I wanted to get laid. I don't want to put myself in a position to get some chick pregnant because I had an urge. And we won't even go into STDs....
All in all, it's a been there done that kind of thing and now I'm actually looking for a girl I can respect.
And likening a lion killing prey to casual sex I mean as an allegory, not a metaphor, so don't take it literaly. I'm just saying a lion has an urge to kill to get it's food. That's called instinct and it's stronger than anything. I could have said the lion also has an instinct to find a mate and fight off everything it can to sucessfully breed with it. Well, same with human males. So don't read into it to much
