i used to feel insecure at times... and the weird part for me is that there is a lot of porn that i too enjoy... so i was kind of thrown by how "wigged"i got every once in a while...
Willow and i talked a lot about it... i think i felt that he was choosing the porn over me. so, we sat down , quite regularly for a while... and looked at porn together. it was great! i find more things that i liked... and some i hated... i got an understanding of why he was looking and what he liked to see and what he was looking for ...
now we look at it together still... but not as often... it's a fun way to keep things fresh... i'll find something i really like and say "i want to try THAT"
... or he might do the same...
i think the key here is being open in your relationship about these kinds of things and finding ways to enjoy them together.
good thread btw... interesting to hear everyone's thoughts... thanks!
