My mother does that all the time. Bugs the hell out of me. She just did it today. I choose to tolerate it to a point for the trade off of being able to say I still have good relations with my mother. I'm just careful not to hope for anything in return for what she asks me to do.
Even when she does do something for me and doesn't ask for any compensation she uses it later to bring up how helpful she is to me and how I "owe" thus and thus to her. Big pain.
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"Always learn the rules so that you can break them properly." Dalai Lama
My Karma just ran over your Dogma.
Last edited by raeanna74; 02-04-2004 at 03:14 PM..
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