I do agree. Words are merely developed by humans as an easier way of communication, although, irony is it's the most confusing, misinterpretted way of communication.
This is where offensiveness & defensiveness, hate, judgement, hurt, misleadings, and lies stem from. Words.
We need to slow down the process of our speaking and our thoughts, and truly gather and send out what we really feel. Sometimes it's hard to put into words how you feel, but once you take a moment to think about it, you will know how to perfectly release your feelings into words.
take your time, only say what you mean, and speak only when necessary.
I have always been the fairly quiet type, although I love social interaction. I don't say much unless I feel I need to and I take my time with it. I used to be so conscious of myself, trying to find things to talk about, but soon I realized it's not for me, and I have observed that the people who talk on and on aren't listening and truly don't know who they are, usually attempting to be someone they're not.
Words sure can have an effect on others. Be careful with them, they are powerful, although they may not be genuine.
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